'I made you who you are': Woman Provides Everything for Her Husband, Only to Find Out He's Planning to Ruin Her Credit Score, She Gets Her Revenge

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    TWO TAKES r/TwoHotTakes u/Just Particular3183 .7h Ex-husband tried to call my bluff... I showed him I wasn't bluffing.
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    So sorry this will be a long post but there is some background information that I believe is relevant. This happened in 2020.
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    For some background information. At the time I was (26) F when I met my now ex-husband at the time (31)M via Facebook in Jan 2017. He messaged me this long paragraph about how he really wanted to meet me and we should go out and I should give him a chance to see where it goes. Me being vulnerable and going through some heartbreaking life changes agreed and we started talking. Long story short we went on a couple dates, he stayed over one night and then never left. Basically moved in with me. At
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    Anyway things were going pretty good and we got along pretty well and had alot of fun together. In April of 2017 he got my family and his family together at my parent's house to have a dinner. Said it was so our family's could meet to see how they got along. Little did I know it was so he could propose. Being on the spot I said yes and by the time we left everyone had already picked a date for the wedding. August of 2017, and started planning it. Me feeling the pressure went along with it. The n
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    and we are married. Everything was fine for a while but we would have small disagreements that I now realize were huge. On our 1 year anniversary I bought him a vehicle. It was a brand new 2018 $35,000 dollar vehicle (even though I was in a beat up 2005 vehicle), we had moved into a new place ( he said it was weird staying somewhere that my ex's had been and convinced me we needed a fresh start in a home that was ours) and even managed to get him a job with a large retail company because a frien
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    In 2019 we got to a point we were fighting all the time, and I felt unappreciated. I was always told, "I didn't do anything to you" "you have no reason to feel that way" and "you need to stop being so emotional". The straw that broke the camels back came when I got home from work (I was working 10hr days, 6 days a week) one day and he was passed out on the couch, while my son (autistic) was in the kitchen and had gotten ahold of a knife and said he was trying to make use dinner. I got my son and
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    Ultimately in 2020 I decided I was done for good, found my own place and cut contact for the most part. I'm 29 and he is 33 now. At this point I just wanted to be done and we agreed that I could take all my son's belongings, and we would split the rest of my stuff (so he wasn't left with nothing) and he could keep the place we had. We also agreed he could keep the vehicle but only so long as he would make the payments on it on time, and once he was able to finance himself he would take my name o
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    He made the first payment on time but the second month when I contacted him about the payment he said he didn't have it and needed to wait until he got paid at the end of the week. I was getting nervous cause the payment was due within a week and a half. When I contacted him again he again said I don't have it and then hung up. It was Friday payment was due the next Wednesday. That Sunday a mutual friend and I was hanging out and let it slip that he was already engaged to another woman and said
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    Of course being the owner of the vehicle, on that Monday while he was at work I had someone drop me off in the parking lot to pick up my vehicle. I got straight in, door wasn't locked, and drove it home. His work was about an hour from where we lived. Once he got off work and realized he had no way home, he called and told me if I didn't bring him his vehicle back that he would come to my house and get it. I told him to go ahead and as soon as it is drove off my property I would have him arreste
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    I took the vehicle cleaned it up, took it to a dealership and sold it before the payment was due and got it paid off and even an extra 6,000 for it over payoff value. He relentlessly harassed me from the time he left till I had had enough on Thursday. I had over 1,000 text and voicemails telling me I'm a petty and that I'm going to pay for leaving him without a vehicle. So I made good on my threat. I called the landlord explained what happened and told him my name was to come off the lease. He h
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    happily disconnected the same day. I also called my friend, his manager, and told her about him leaving the cash safe keys unattended in the vehicle unlocked in the parking lot while on the clock. When he got home from work he had no water no power and no internet. (His credit was shot so he couldn't get water or power in his name so he eventually was evicted due to not being able to maintain the property in proper living conditions.) On Friday he was called into the office and let go due to neg
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    I texted him Friday evening and told him that now he has seen a petty and now I can officially say I left him where I found him, blocked him and never looked back. Edit to add: the divorce was finalized in 2021. This is what we agreed to amongst ourselves when we separated. By the time the divorce was finalized we had lived separate lives for a year with no contact.
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    Careless-Ebb1531 .7h That's awesome lol!!! I'm glad he got his!! I had an x who was the same way. He had nothing when I met him but when I finally left he made my life Staying in our apartment but not paying rent then keeping everything I had paid for that was in the apartment (he didn't work for more than a year total in the 9 year relationship) So I'm happy to hear that at least someone got to make things right after they split!! Congrats!!! Reply 293
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    Sweet-Sleep3004 .7h Well done on making sure your credit score was kept in excellent shape. I'll be raising my glass to you for putting the trash to the curb where it belongs ← Reply 30 ↓
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    ALittleBitEnchanted • 6h Icing on the cake: his fiance broke off the engagement because they found out he has absolutely nothing, and everything he had was from you, hehe. ← Reply û 57 ♡
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    Osidestarfish • 6h You owe that mutual friend a beer (shot, craft cocktail, great bottle of wine) and a hug... Reply 20 Just Particular3183 OP. 6h We went out for a fantastic steak dinner and bar hoping for a night on me with the extra I got back from the sale of the vehicle AA ← D û 44
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    synaesthezia • 3h Moral of the story is: keep your profiles locked down, and don't marry random strangers who message you. Reply
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    National-Sir-5362 • 6h I love this! Whenever I start dating someone I always warn them that, I'm too nice... but don't you ever F with me." It helps weed out the toxic people. You need to stop wasting your time on a "fixer upper" and start dating someone that can match your energy and effort. Because you deserve so much more than the bare minimum! ← Reply ↑ 8 3
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    AnnaF721 7h That's not petty revenge. That is major revenge! Chzncna2112 • 6h Reply 31 That wasn't revenge. That was a person of honor keeping her word, no matter what was going on. 5 Д 26 д
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    Ghost1012004 • 6h I absolutely love this!! It definitely beats my giving all my ex's clothes to Goodwill and stealing his car!! 50/50 state and I was pregnant so police did nothing! Thanks for sharing!! Reply Ŵ 7 ♡

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