Welcome back internet queens and kings. Marriages are full of compromises, and no one's relationship is perfect. Someone may want that cute 'good morning' text everyday, whereas it could be petulant for the other. Someone may like to cook together, while the other prefers to eat out. Regardless of your preferences, you need to find some sort of middle ground with your partner, and sacrifice some of your wants. But when someone is just plain uninvolved in caring, or seeming uninterested in your wants and needs, then there's definitely a problem.
Take this Reddit piece; the original poster (OP) is a woman who claims she has no photos with her daughter, except selfies. It's a simple request, all she wants is for her husband to take some photos at events, so she has the memories. In three years of her requests, he's yet to take a single photo of them together. I would be annoyed too, but I also would just ask in the moment for someone to take a photo. But read the full story for all the juicy details.