Postpartum Woman Gets into Tiff With Mother-in-law After MIL Eats Her Favorite Food That She Cooked For Hours, Husband Gets Involved

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    r/AITAH 7 mo. ago Haunting-Marzipan-45 AITA for crying because my husband and MIL ruined my dinner?
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    I'm 3 months postpartum and I've been overwhelmed to the max. When I NEED help, it's not offered at all. When I don't want help, all the sudden everyone is up my telling me to go sit down and "they'll handle it". And yes, I have brought this up several times. I have flipped my about it, I've talked calmly
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    about it and somehow it's always a "well I never know what you want" argument - despite me being pretty vocal. Sorry in advance, I'm literally so angry right now.
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    My husband's mother stays in our in law apartment and randomly she will come down for dinner. I told my husband 3 days ago to tell his mother to NOT come to dinner tonight because I was making something for myself and I was freezing the leftovers so I could reheat it and have it whenever I wanted. It's my
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    favorite meal and I only get it once in a blue moon. My husband asked me at least 8x if I wanted his help and I said no over and over again. It's a family recipe that I know by heart and he doesn't follow directions. He always has an input and tries adding extra. So I said no. Well, he kept coming out and I'm trying to cook and stirring the pot
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    and getting directly in my way. He then starts adding the stock to the pan when it's not even ready yet so I snapped and told him to go play with the baby or something. He puts his hands up, says sorry and walks off. Well, I ran to the bathroom and had my pot on simmer and came out and found him pouring 2 cups of
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    water in to my pan. It does NOT call for water (he didn't know this, to be fair). So I flipped the out and told him to get out of the kitchen because he's now ruined my dish. He threw his hands up in frustration and said "it was _ burning!" (It wasn't burning at all). In an attempt to fix my bow watered down mixture, I just added cheese and
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    some heavy cream. It still tastes good this way. I finally get done and let it cool on the back burner of the stove after we eat, in silence.
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    Well, I went to feed the baby in the nursery and when I came down, I found his mother in the kitchen eating out of the pan. My husband was in the detached garage so he had no idea she was in there. I screamed for my husband, who came in and saw his mom spoon still in hand with eyes bugged out like a deer in
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    headlights. He says christ mom, really?" And I just lost it. I started crying, excessively, and told them they have both ruined my dinner and my night and I think they should both leave for awhile. I told MIL, since she's paying rent and I can't technically kick her out, that she is not welcome AT ALL in my main house until further notice
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    (she has an outdoor staircase and doesn't have to come in my house at all). My husband is at me. He said I'm being ridiculous over food and that he had only tried to help and that it 'looks like' his mom only took a bite and he doesn't know what to do to keep me happy anymore because all I do is cry apparently over small. AITA?
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    LyaNoxDK 7mo ago NTA. It reminds me of Christmas dinner when my youngest was 2 months old. I had cooked multiple meals for everyone since the whole in-law family was visiting. I went to nurse and when I came out they were all eating and there was no
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    place for me at the table. No plate, no chair. Nothing. I lost my ever loving Yelling about how I was hot their maid. You have every right to be upset.
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    Electrical-Stable... • 7mo ago No you're not wrong and mil contaminated your leftovers. I'd be upset too. Husband using weaponized incompetence and then gets mad when he doesn't listen.
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    • LeaJadis 7mo ago Okay its time to explain to your dumbass husband the meaning behind "too many cooks spoil the broth".
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    If you are doing a task, he needs to check in with you before helping by finishing the task for you. If he thought it was burning, you turn down the stove or remove from heat you don't ADD to the pot.
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    What a cavewoman.... eating straight out of the shared pot. BLECH
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    Danivelle 7mo ago Tell your husband to keep his mother of your kitchen and if she is going to cross your boundaries, her nedds to stay in her apartment period. Husband can have dinner with Mommy Dearest in her apartment, at her expense
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    Mommy Dearest in her apartment, at her expense and her doing the cooking.
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    • Rgirl4 7mo ago Nta, you dh is disgusting. His mother needs to be told she is not allowed in your house unless she is invited. She has her own apartment and it needs to be treated like to separate households, if they won't do this she needs to leave.

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