Woman Starts Affair With Instagram Guy, Yet Livid When She Comes Home to Find Her Boyfriend Had a Woman Over

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Briana Viser • Writer and Editor
Oct 5, 2024 1:00 PM EDT

Ladies and gentlemen, we all know what it's like to be in a relationship we want to stay in, and also be tempted by someone outside of it. We all have our own boundaries, and some of us cut the interactions when we know how they're making us feel, while others indulge in them. It takes some people years of lessons in maturity, pain, and heartbreak to understand the beauty of true monogamy. Anyone who falls into someone else's arms did it because they ultimately wanted to. 

That brings us to the Reddit thread. The original poster (OP) is a man whose girlfriend has done just that, and with a stranger from the internet no less. Well, he tries to reason with her, to convince her he's done, but she doesn't want to let him go. He decides to play her games, and retaliate. You'll have to read the full story below for all the juicy details. 

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    r/AITAH 21 hr. ago Glad_Disk 128 Aitah for inviting a girl over when my "ex" is out of town to meet the man who broke our relationship?
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    My gf and I were together for 8 years. Living together for 5. Everything was great and we were very affectionate and happy together.
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    3 months ago, something shifted and she was glued to her phone more. I asked she said she made a friend on instagram and now they're talking on snap. She showed me some of the conversations. I told her he was flirting and she said come on!
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    Then it became phone calls. Sometimes for hours I told her that wasn't done. She got defensive and called me controlling and gaslighter and that I am suffocating her. She doesn't have many friends and now she had one.
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    Then 2 weeks ago, she didn't know I was sleeping in the room. I heard her conversation with him. Basically it was . I sent her a message from the room to say that it was over between us and that she had made her choice. She was furious and said that it was nothing. She loved me.
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    That's her friend and they were joking. I was controlling. I couldn't do this to her. I moved out to the living room. During these two weeks she's been crying and sulking and saying I was treating her bad and that she wasn't cheating.
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    Then Thursday, she said that she was going on a trip to see a friend, you guessed it. She is meeting that guy. I didn't say anything, just shook my head. I told her that I was terminating the lease for the apartment and afterwards she will have 3 months to find a new place. She was livid and called me the ah and cold
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    hearted because she loved me and I was the love of her life. I didn't engage in more discussion. It felt like I didn't know this woman anymore.
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    I have a friend at work that I have been telling what's going on to and she's been very supportive. She said that she had a friend who thought I was very attractive and she wasn't looking for something serious because she too had just divorced. I have seen this girl and she's gorgeous. We
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    met Friday for dinner and beers and she spent all Saturday here. My now ex came home this morning and she was raging mad when she found out that I had a girl over. She called me the ah and started throwing things at me and crying hysterically. I don't know why I am the ah here?
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    writingmmrom... • 19h ago. So she gets to her Snapchat boyfriend and you're not allowed to move. on? Clearly she planned to keep you as her steady, while she was off banging her ready.
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    Academic-Dare... • 18h ago • I would bet money the meet up with other dude was lackluster AF. Her plan was to keep you as backup
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    hotchiccababe • 20h ago Honestly, it sounds like your ex is trying to play the victim card while she's the one who took a detour to Flirt City. You gave her more than enough chances, and it's not controlling to expect basic respect in a relationship.
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    Good on you for moving on! If she's mad about you inviting someone over, it's probably because she realizes she lost a good thing while she was busy playing games. You do you!
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    guynicorn 21h ago • I think that it's going to get uglier as you get closer to the end of your lease. I get that you are trying to be the gentleman after 8 years together, but that also given her enough ammo to hurt you as you stay physically
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    longer together. Because you know each other after 8 years. Hide your important stuff and do not share a room anymore if possible. Lock it or even rent a space. People get very ugly and petty and it is already going to
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    escalate since she dare break your trust while you are physically present, but what about when you are are out?
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    spicy-brunette • 21h ago. You're definitely not the AH. She's gaslighting and manipulating you
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    WinterFront1431 • 21h ago • She is delusional. Clearly she thinks she is some catch and you are a loser, if she thinks she can to cheat, go and meet the guy and then get mad at you and you'll still want her nasty
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    Personally, I'd call the police, tell them she destroying your property, and you no longer feel safe with her here until the lease is up.
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