Girlfriend Hides the Truth About Past Relations With Her Male ‘Friend,’ Making Boyfriend Question Their Relationship Upon Finding Out

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    • r/AITAH 1 day ago chodge89 AITA Found out mid- dinner that the guy we were with had slept with my GF
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    My GF (39F) invited me (M42) to go to a dinner party at her friend's house last night. I knew they had met on a dating app. and she had said they went on one date but decided to be friends instead. They hang out from time to time and I had met him once before about a year ago right after we started dating. I
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    have no reason to believe anything is going on right now but this is not the only ex she hangs out with. During the party, one of the other guests made a comment that made it apparent that it was more than one date and that things had gone much further than she said. I laughed it off in the moment but asked her
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    about it when we left and she admitted how far it had gone. I sort of blew up (my clear a hole moment) because I felt that she could have been honest and the fact that she wasn't made me look like an idiot in public. We spoke about it today and I apologized and she explained why she had lied about it. I don't
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    know why but now that I know the truth I sort of feel less comfortable with them hanging out. I know I'm the ah. le for blowing up but am I the a hole for sort of thinking she should cut ties with this guy now?
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    stiggley 1d ago • NTA she wasn't honest about their relationship because you would be uncomfortable. So she knew it was an issue and deliberately, and repeatedly lied about it. No trust.
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    Embarrassed_Le... • 1d ago I don't think you are the for blowing up at her, she lied to you about the relationship and continues to see him, so I'd be very suspicious of why she didn't tell you when it first came up a year ago. For
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    myself I'd break up with her because quite frankly I wouldn't trust her anymore.
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    phred0095 1d ago • She lied to you. She got caught. And you apologized. Do you have so little self- esteem that you'd rather apologize to someone who's you over then stand up for yourself?
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    lilaloluuuuu 1d ago. Don't let her make you feel like you're the problem and focus on what matters: she lied to you! She's the AH.
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    headwaterscom... • 1d ago You found out at dinner that your girlfriend's 'friend' is more like a 'friend with benefits'? Sounds like the plot twist of a rom-com gone wrong
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    Ok Historian_646 • 1d ago • NTA! NTA for blowing up (she lied) and NTA for setting boundaries! She created this mess and OP reacted. At this point it is obvious that your GF cannot be trusted and I wonder if there is more going on with her and these exes.
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    III-Public 797 1d ago • Brother, I mean this in every way possible.....dump her and run for the hills. She's still him or is contemplating on it. At the very least that particular chapter between them is still partially open. The fact she lied to you about how far
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    they went means she wants to be sure you are never suspicious enough of their friendship to ever watch for signs of foul play between them. Protect your sanity and distance yourself.
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    Mindless-Fig7... • 22h ago • You've got to wonder what else she has been lying about.
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    kingjohnbigboote • 1d ago • Always remember. She didn't come clean because she wanted to. She only admitted to the lie because she got caught. ΝΤΑ
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    primerider 1000 • 17h ago She lied about something you needed to know.
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    oldtim10 1d ago • My husband and I don't discuss former parters, but if we're gonna be hanging out with someone I've boned, I will give him a heads up and make sure he is comfortable to avoid a situation like this. ΝΤΑ
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    justthoughtidch... • 1d ago. It's time for you to look for someone else. Move on from this woman because she will sleep around on you if she's not already doing so
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    Cheap_Leek1740 • 15h ago • Cut ties with your gf lol like Cmon. She's friends with all her exs and Lies to you about what she did with them and then brings you around them these are major Red flags bud

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