Gamer doesn't understand why their loud late-night gaming sessions are upsetting their roommate

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    AITA roommate is mad at me for making sound in the night. AITA I work evening shift and go home at 12 AM. I have a mechanical keyboard and I game and talk to friends quietly during the night. My roommate lives in a seperate room in front of mine. She is a very light sleeper and she says that I make too much noise in the night.
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    She basically doesn't want me to use my keyboard even though I bought o rings for it (it's an accessory to decrease its sound) and I put a blanket on the wall facing her room. She also doesn't want me to talk at all during the night.
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    I ended up telling her that it's reasonable to want me to be quiet at night, but I'm not gonna be silent, we are both paying rent and we both have rights. She said I'm not being quiet. I Told her that at this point, it's not my problem and she got very upset, I don't know what she is planning to do now. AITA?
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    OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the a_hole: 1. Telling my roommate that it's not my problem anymore. 2) Because it's past 12 AM, she is trying to sleep, and I refused any further attempts solve the problem from my side.
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    Pleasant_Imag... 22h ago YTA Noise around 1am most nights would be a problem. for most people. Imagine if she was being loud when you had to sleep for your job.
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    rampaginghuff... I suspect half of Reddit stays up till 4am and thinks this is normal and they're going to say NT A. But YTA and here is why: YOU may enjoy your significantly shifted schedule of staying up all night, but most humans are diurnal, as evidenced by the majority of businesses being
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    open and most jobs and classes being held roughly 9-5. So most people sleep at night, because they have to for work/class and because they prefer to, and most people would have trouble sleeping while someone was talking next door and clacking away on their keyboard all night. You are TALKING. You're not "being quiet."
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    Pretty much every apartment building and shared living situation out there has quiet hours from 10pm to 7am, give or take. Her expectation of quiet hours during this time is completely normal and average, and in line with most shared living spaces.
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    You are the one with the shifted nonstandard schedule. You need to be quiet at night. You're saying you're already "being quiet," but if she can hear you talking through the wall, then you are not being quiet enough and it's on you to do better.
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    DSQ 21h ago • A mechanical keyboard after midnight? YTA There is no issue with playing your game late at night with headphones in but using a loud keyboard is unfair.
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    MaddoxGoodwin • 21h ago Im a massive night owl gamer like you. YTA. Fortunately no one cares. where I live, my room kinda away from everyone. But if anyone did complain I'd obviously do something about it, as I'm not an ahle
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    F21h ago Edited 15m ago • YTA. I'm also a light sleeper and I've been close to states of psychosis before from being woken up repeatedly throughout the night and kept awake by things such as our pets making noise in the house or neighbors playing loud music. It's torture. Earplugs and white noise sometimes help when I'm like on day three of up sleep and am so far gone with exhaustion, but normally they are ineffective.
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    Everyone is saying she can deal with it, this is the price. of having a roommate, etc. but no one is turning that same logic around on you. What is more important, your entitlement to be able to game and talk and make noise after midnight, or your roommate's entitlement to quiet hours? Just like people || are saying "tough sh to her, I would say the same to you. You want to game and make noise at those hours?
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    Tough. I'd recommend getting a silent keyboard and only text chatting with friends. That would be the reasonable, mature, and in my mind obvious thing to do. I'd personally feel horrible if I knew I was disturbing someone's peace. If you're absolutely committed to making noise after midnight you need to live alone or with a roommate who keeps similar hours.
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    • 20h ago Edited 8h ago • YTA - Mechanical keyboards are unnecessarily loud. Get a cheap one that's a fucktonne quieter. You also aren't likely to be talking as quietly as you think. I lived with someone like you for years. The only time I could sleep was immediately after I got home from work at 4pm, my sleep schedule was permanently I. It impacted all aspects of my life, be the decent person. It's truly not that hard.
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    alsotheabyss • 20h ago • Mechanical keyboard? Really? That's annoying even when not trying to sleep. YTA.
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    FlamingBlades • 20h ago • YTA Let's be real, you're a narcissist who is looking for enough yes-men to take your side so that you can take this to her and gaslight her into believing she is the problem. She isn't. You are. Much like you, I am someone is up at all hours of the night, but I don't for one
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    second believe that it gives me the right to keep people who are on a much more normal schedule than I am awake. You know she's a light sleeper yet rather than modify how you do things in order to make life for everyone better, you're on here making excuse after excuse and showing everyone what an inconsiderate you can
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    be. She can't help she's a light sleeper, you can help that you're being noisy. The reality is that if you're going to keep odd hours, you either need a room mate who keeps the same hours, live on your own, or simply modify what you're doing so you don't make everyone miserable. Stop being the AH and let that girl get some sleep, mate.
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    stacksofvalue 20h ago. • I can tell you're the AH because of the way you're responding to comments. You didn't come for advice, you came for validation which is a clear sign that you are the AH and unwilling to be considerate of your roommate or take on suggestions and feedback.
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    SubarcticFarmer · 20h ago . YTA for insisting on using a mechanical keyboard in the middle of the night
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    Leilanee 20h ago. . YTA. My spouse and I both game and he is also on a late schedule while I am not. With the headset on specifically you lose all concept of how loud you're really being so I doubt your speech is remotely as quiet as you think.
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    That said, regardless of whether you're talking or not, mechanical keyboards are loud as h 1. So loud that I can literally identify exactly which game he is playing from the other room just by the rhythm that he uses the keyboard. I have certain games blacklisted from play after I go to bed, but even the ones I've said I'm ok with, and even if he swaps platforms and tries a switch game instead, it all keeps me up.

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