Man Neglects Birthday Promises to Daughter in Favor of Her Step-Siblings, Then Pressures Her to Cancel New Birthday Plans for Aunt's Funeral, She Refuses, Feeling Her Father Never Prioritized Her

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    called me inconsiderate and I can have my new York trip the weekend after my actual birthday. I said the since he had no parts of paying for anything regarding my birthday he won't dictate when I do things for it and then I hung up on him.
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    r/AmltheAsshole Mrs_Colby_Brock AITAH For Refusing to go to my aunt's funeral
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    So I 14F will be turning 15 on TUESDAY(this is important) December 17th. Now I really wanted to see Hamilton in New York City. My father
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    promised me that he will buy tickets for me and my best friend and my mother would get hers and my little sister. Long St short he never got them
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    and is currently in Florida at Disney with his girlfriend, his Stepson, and my baby sister, spending my birthday money on them. My mom a (a single
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    mom of 2), felt bad and now I'm going to the museum of ice cream and then to the cheesecake factory and other activities. Since my birthday falls on a
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    Tuesday my mom planned my New York trip the weekend before (3 days before my birthday) On the 14th and 15th. I'm so excited and have my outfit
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    and hairstyle planned. So earlier today my dad called me and said that my aunt (his sister) got into car crash and passed away. I don't communicate with
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    his side of the family and it didn't really matter to me that she did. My dad said that I need to rearrange my trip because the funeral is on Saturday. I
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    told him in the most respectful way that I will not be attending the funeral because my new York stuff is already paid for, and I will not ruin my birthday
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    weekend for a woman I see one every 3 years. He called me inconsiderate and I can have my new York trip the weekend after my actual birthday. I
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    said the since he had no parts of paying for anything regarding my birthday he won't dictate when I do things for it and then I hung up on him.
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    He called my mom and my mom told him and I quote "Dani has a point, you made a promise to her and put her on the backburner for your other kids.
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    When it's almost her birthday. I'm not going to force my daughter to go to a funeral when she's supposed to be in NYC. And if Dani wants to go to
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    the funeral and do her trip the weekend after or cut some of the activities out then that's her choice". My dad said some very hurtful things
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    and now I'm getting hateful messages from his side of the family telling me to just cancel NYC all together and spend
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    time with my grieving family. Im considering it. So AITAH for not wanting to go to my aunt's funeral
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    FireBallXLV No .Do not go . Your poor mom paid for this Show her you are grateful and go to NY.
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    Early_Fill6545 NTA it would have been different if he had been a man of his word and was actually taking you to New York but do you really believe that he will suddenly care about taking you? He is the ah le enjoy your trip oh cool mom she got your back!
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    Mathalamus2 go to NYC. its already paid for. NTA. funerals suck, and if you didnt wanna go anyway, then you have every right not to go.

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