Man Insists Bio Daughter and Stepson Share a Room for His Home Office, Wife Puts Her Foot Down Protecting Their Privacy, He Accuses Her of Selfishness

Welcome back ladies and gentlemen of the internet. It seems like blended families are more common these days than traditional ones. Parents getting divorced, kids moving around from dad to mom, and mom to dad and back again. Living with stepsiblings and stepparents, it can be more than what any kid signed up for. I don't know about you, but I would be resentful if my parents got a divorce and made me live with stepsiblings. But I digress…

In this Reddit thread, it's not just about a blended family. In this family, the father insists that his daughter and stepson share a room. Keep in mind their ages: the daughter is 10 and the son is 11. It's at an age where sure, they're pretty young. But in a year or two things will start to feel very uncomfortable as they start developing and going through puberty. The mother puts her foot down, but not without a fight. 

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    Now Dan is accusing me of being unreasonable and unwilling to make sacrifices for our relationship. I feel guilty because I want our family dynamic to work, but I also want to protect my son's comfort and well-being.
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    • r/AITAH ⚫ 16 hr. ago [deleted] AITA for Refusing to Let My Child Share a Room With Their Step-Sibling?
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    I (36F) have a 10-year-old son, Ethan, from my previous marriage. My partner, Dan (38M), moved in with me last year, and he has an 11-year-old daughter, Lila, who stays with us every other week. Ethan and Lila get along well, but they both have their own rooms, which I believe is important for their comfort and privacy.
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    Recently, Dan proposed that we have Ethan and Lila share a room so we can turn the other room into a home office for him. He's been working from the kitchen table and says it's not ideal. While I understand his frustration, I don't think it's fair to ask the kids to give up their individual spaces, especially when they're at an age
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    where privacy and personal boundaries are so important.
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    When I told Dan I wasn't comfortable with the idea, he got upset and said I wasn't willing to compromise to make our blended family work. He argued that it's normal for siblings or step- siblings to share rooms and that the kids will adjust. He also claimed that I'm prioritizing Ethan's comfort over his needs
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    and making him feel like an outsider in the house.
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    I suggested alternatives, like creating a small workspace in our bedroom or rearranging the living room, but Dan dismissed them as impractical. He insists the kids will be fine sharing, especially since Lila is only here part-time, but I know Ethan values having his own space and would likely feel resentful if it were taken away.
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    Now Dan is accusing me of being unreasonable and unwilling to make sacrifices for our relationship. I feel guilty because | want our family dynamic to work, but I also want to protect my son's comfort and well-being.
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    So, AITA for refusing to let my child share a room with their step-sibling to make space for a home office?
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    _s1m0n_s3z • 16h ago • Top 1% Commenter No, step-siblings of opposite genders should not be sharing a bedroom as they head into puberty. NTA.
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    AdAccomplish... • 16h ago • Top 1% Commenter This is a massive red flag. Respond as you see necessary. 1. It was Ethan's house before it was Dan's 2. The adults should alwayus prioritize the kids
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    3. adolescents need privacy. 4. Putting two opposite adolescents into a room together as they go through puberty is an incredibly bad idea. There are 100 things that could happen, and none of them are good.
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    Dan is ignoring all this and wants what he wants, screw everyone else. And is being a big, manipulative baby about it.
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    ImposterSyndr... • 16h ago • Absolutely not. He's prioritizing his own comfort over the comfort and potential safety (not saying anything will happen) of the children. If he wants an office, he needs to find an alternative.
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    AltruisticLime27 • 16h ago • NTA. But you have a bf problem not a child problem. It's about time to remove the pink glasses and see the rest of the red flags and to rethink all that relationship...
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    DazzleLove ⚫16h ago • NTA. ? It is a big ask for step siblings of the same to share a room, albeit for short bursts eg weekends, it's more reasonable. Equally if the kids were small, that would also be OK. However, his daughter is just at the age where it is now
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    incredibly inappropriate. Do you really want to be with someone who is so selfish that he doesn't prioritise his own child's privacy over his wants?
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    Lieutenantzzzz • 10h ago • nah, you're not the a hole. kids need their own space, especially at that age. dan can figure out his office without messing with their privacy. this is about the kids, not his convenience.
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    SarcasticAnd • 16h ago • HI no. Nope. Noway. No. Edit: put a sofa bed or something in the office for her and her dad to share the space.
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    . BigBlueHood • 16h ago • Top 1% Commenter You absolutely should prioritize your child and his comfort. Do you really need a "partner" who openly asks you to sacrifice your child's well-being for him? NTA and time to rethink the relationship.
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