"I won't betray my wife": Man stands by wife of 5 years after brother's fiancée excludes her from wedding guest list for being "an attention seeker," family insists he attend alone

Welcome, women of the World Wide Web. The wedding guest list is an ever-shifting document. While there are plenty of draconian brides and wedding planners that would gladly close the door on anyone that they did not send an invite to, many cultures and social circles simply do not work like that. Many people travel in pairs and groups and expect to be accommodated if they are invited anywhere. Still, you have to put your foot down somewhere. It's fair to not allow your cousin to bring his summer fling to the wedding or your aunt to invite her bestie from spin class if you don't know her. However, it is best not to exclude someone's long-term spouse.

In our story today, a man's wife is essentially banned from his brother's wedding. His brother's fiancée finds his wife annoying and would prefer not to have her around on her special day. Our protagonist turns to the internet to decide what to do after his family proves divided in the conflict. Get all the details by scrolling down.

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AITA skipping my brother's wedding because his fiancée excluded my wife guest list?

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It really just sounds like she is jealous of our protagonist's girlfriend. She's just friendly and talkative; she's not going to show up to the wedding in white to steal her spotlight.
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Someone tell this man that his brother's fiancée is the one ruining the wedding and causing drama!
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