Redheaded parents tricked into doing DNA test when daughter realizes she might be adopted because of her brown hair, she second guesses herself despite strange red flags: “There were no pictures of me until I was 3-years-old”

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    AITAH for not telling my parents that I did a DNA test to see if my dad was my dad

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    So my family is all redheads except me I have brown hair, over the years weird things would pop up that made me wonder, i dont look like my siblings, i have a genetic condition that can only be passed down by a parent that neither of my parents have, there were no pictures of me till I was about 3
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    years old. then I was looking at a blood chart for class and realized that my blood type doesn't match my parents, like the chances of me having my blood type is 1 in 6 million. So really rare right. Well I brought up one time to test the waters that we should all have DNA
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    test done to find out why I have my blood type I, my mom immediately shut it down i mean a yelling match. I got my parents ancestry kits and tested my dad anyways and found out that I am my dad's kid just an anomaly. I wanted to know AITAH for tricking my parents into paternity testing
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    Far_Information_96... • 13h ago NTA. Are you your mom's?
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    Limp Sherbert_5169 ⚫13h ago You might not be your mother's kid, you might be a child of an affair. You only confirmed your father is your bio parent. That would explain why your mom doesn't want you to get a DNA test.
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    Otherwise_Degree_... ⚫ 16h ago Now test your mom. Also don't tell anyone maybe your therapist.
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    Ydris99 • 16h ago NAH. You're NTA for checking but also your mom's not for being mad that you'd suspect her of cheating.
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    Odd-Chart8250 • 16h ago Just because you show a recessive gene isn't a reason to think like this.
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    My mother has platinum blond hair and my dad has black hair. When I was growing up I had strawberry blonde until I had my daughter then it turned dark brown. The body and genes are still a mystery to some.
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    Helpful-Science-39... • 16h ago Did you even consider that questioning your paternity to your parents is also accusing your mom of stepping out on your dad? You could have done the ancestry kits to resolve your questioning
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    without starting an issue with your parents. I think they know what you were doing, it is not hard to figure out and you are not as clever as you think.
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    moth-bear 11h ago Sorry, I empathise with you wanting to know, but YTA if you tricked your parents into doing the test and then gave their DNA material and info to Ancestry without their consent.
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    WhiteKnightPrimal 16h ago NTA, but have you tested your mum, as well? If it was just traits, like hair and eye colour, I wouldn't see much of an issue, because genetics can be weird, and traits can skip generations and then
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    suddenly appear in only one person. But you have a rare blood type that doesn't match. either parent and a genetic condition neither parent has, as well, plus the lack of baby photos. Since the test shows that you're your dad's kid, are you your mother's kid? She's
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    the one who had the extreme reaction to the idea, as well, which is suspicious. I thought it was because she didn't want it to be revealed that she had an affair, but perhaps your dad had an affair, or you were his from a previous relationship, and your mum doesn't want you looking for bio mum or something?
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    It's not the basic traits like hair colour that makes me think you should get mum tested, too, it's the mix of blood type, genetic condition, lack of baby photos and mum's extreme reaction. You're your dad's kid, but are you your mum's? I'm not sure how blood type works for this stuff,
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    but if you've done the research into the genetic condition, and you're sure you could only have it if one or both your parents had it or a carrier gene, and neither of your parents have the condition nor are they a carrier, then that suggests one of your parents isn't so biologically. It's also possible,
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    though, that your parents have just never been tested for either the condition or the carrier gene for it, and one of them actually has the condition or both have the carrier gene.
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    It's worth testing mum just to be sure. Because that condition is genetic, which means there's a chance your siblings could also have it, just undiagnosed, or be a carrier for it, so their kids could have it. If both your parents are your bio parents, that gives
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    your siblings the chance to test for the condition and carrier gene, so they know long before they have kids themselves.

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