Man insists on paternity test when his 3 week old has dark hair, wife realizes his insinuation of infidelity and starts to question his: “It feels like he doesn’t trust me”

Welcome back. In marriage, there will be numerous ups and downs that are completely unpredictable and outside of either person's control. Of course, you're in control of how you react to things, and that's about it. It might be a tough lesson to learn when stepping into a new relationship that you can't change other people, they have to want to change themselves. In long-term relationships, the best you can do is communicate with your partner so you're both on the same page.

When having children, things get even more complicated. Of course, it also bonds the two people. They created life in the world, and this connection is something no one can take away from them. But it also creates a lot of problems, such as financial issues, pressure on each parent as individuals, and it takes away from the romance when you have a baby.

In the story below, the subject of infidelity is brought up between the couple. The man accuses his wife of infidelity by proxy of requesting a paternity test for his 3 week old baby. Read the full story below for all the juicy details.

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If he accuses her of something like this completely out of nowhere, I hate to say it, but it sounds a lot like projection. He has no real reason to think she's cheating, especially that the reason is so insignificant. Babies can look like anything, genetics isn't going to phenotypically express itself as 50/50 in the parents.
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It's stories like these that are insane to me. Maybe this woman is about to find out that her husband is cheating on her, and alter her entire life trajectory, all because of a Reddit thread. The internet is a strange, esoteric place with crevices that show us things we may not have been ready for.
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