Flaky 19-year-old bridesmaid leaves aunt on read leading up to her wedding, ends up cut from the bridal party: "I'm being treated as an afterthought"

19-year-olds aren't known for making the brightest of choices or for their award-winning ability to handle compicated social situations. At that age, people are still trying to figure out how to smoothly handle friend and family dynamics. Sometimes, they don't even attempt to deal with stressful situations at all. It certainly isn't unusual for young people to ignore their problems until they come to a head. This is usually followed by consequences and a learning moment. Eventually, we all learn how to communicate and ask for help. Well, most of us.

In our story today, a bride-to-be includes her 19-year-old niece in her bridal party. The teen seems excited at first, but eventually ends up ghosting our protagonist as the date of the wedding approaches. Wanting to be surrounded by supportive people that care about her on her wedding, she releases her niece from her bridesmaid duties. Scroll down to get all the details.

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WIBTA for removing my 19-year-old niece as a bridesmaid because she forgot about dress shopping?

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Our protaognist is right to cut her niece from the bridal party and release her from her duties in any case, but a conversation definitely needs to be had between the two.
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It certainly sounds like the teen wants what she wanted. I'm not sure who else is a bridesmaid, but if the bridal party is made up of our protagonist's friends, being the youngest might be really anxiety-inducing.
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