21-year-old twin repeatedly chooses brother over his girlfriend, he finally breaks it off with her when it becomes clear she can't handle the dynamic: "I feel like I'm in a relationship with you and your brother"

The connection between pairs of twins can be unnerving to people who do not have a twin of their own. While siblings can certainly be extremely close and even look like twins, something about growing together in the womb gives twins an unparalleled connection. They say that sometimes, when one twin is hurt, the other one can sense it regardless of distance. I knew a pair of twins in high school, and they didn't really relate to all the spiritual twin lore that you can read about on the internet. However, they were incredibly close and completely inseperable.

In our story today, a man breaks up with his girlfriend when it becomes clear to him that she will never be able to handle his close relationship with his twin brother. She's not in the wrong, either; he admits that most of the time, he'd rather spend time with his bro than with her. Scroll down to determine for yourself if our protagonist is in the wrong, or if this was just a classic case of incompatability.

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AITA breaking up with my girlfriend because she didn't like close am with my twin brother?

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Twins certainly have a special relationship. However, if he'd rather spend time with his brother in most cases, it might be that he was just never that into her.
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Right, moving forward, if he truly wants to be in a relationship, he's going to have to learn how to prioritize his partners in some ways.
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AITA breaking up with my girlfriend because she didn't like close am with my twin brother?

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