Middle-aged man calls off wedding after he uncovers bride-to-be's $95,000 credit card debt when she refuses to sign prenup: "She didn't think I deserved to know she was six figures in the red"

If my parents instilled anything in me, it's a deep love for sappy boleros and a healthy dose of fear of credit card debt. They themselves are incredibly responsible about paying off their debts, and their credit score it totally impeccable. However, the effort that they put into it and the advice that they gave me growing up only made me want to hold off on ever getting a credit card. I'm still a debit card girl; I like knowing exactly what I've got, and spending only what I have on hand, thank you very much!

In our story today, a groom-to-be finds out that his girlfriend has racked up almost six figures in credit card debt. She managed to keep this a secret during their entire relationship. He only found out when she started showing some major red flags after suggesting a prenup. To read this dizzying tale of deceit, scroll down below!

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AITAH considering calling off my wedding because my fiancée refuses sign prenup after found out she has massive cedit card debt?

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Yes, it is a total red flag that she hid something so heavy from him. It really seems like it was her intention all along to bind him to her financially to help pay it off.
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There is no way to build trust after this; if he had gone through with the marriage, it would have ended in disaster even if they managed to get the money sorted together.
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