Employee asks to work remotely while office bathroom is out of order, boss denies request: 'I’ve been skipping food and water from 6 a.m. to 10 p.m. on office days'

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    TL;DR: Boss denied my request to work fully remote temporarily while the only accessible bathroom is broken, despite a chronic health condition. Said it
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    should be "manageable" and hinted at evaluating my performance if it's not. Now I have to go without food or water from 6 a.m. to 10 p.m. once a
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    week just to avoid flare-ups while commuting and working in-office. Documenting everything to escalate once I close on a house.
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    I work a remote-hybrid job where we're in-office one day per week. The problem? For the last three weeks, the upstairs
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    women's bathroom at the office has been out of order, and I have a chronic health condition that requires quick restroom access. The
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    only other bathroom is down a floor and across the building. I've been trying to manage it quietly, but it's caused a lot of stress and a few near-emergencies.
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    So, I emailed my boss. asking to work from home fully (5 days a week) until the bathroom is fixed. We already work from home most of the time anyway,
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    so I didn't think it was a huge ask. Her response? "I understand it can be inconvenient, however I think it can be manageable for one day a
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    week, especially with the amount of NAs and rescheduling that happens. That said, if you feel like your health conditions are prohibiting
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    your performance, that may be something we need to evaluate."
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    So... basically: Sk it up, and if it gets in the way, we'll "evaluate" whether you should even be here.
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    Meanwhile, they've made accommodations for other people, like pregnant coworkers (which I fully support, for
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    the record)-but somehow my condition isn't seen as valid because I "look fine" on Zoom?
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    Because of this, I've been skipping food and water from 6 a.m. to 10 p.m. on office days-not by choice, but because I take public transportation
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    and can't risk needing the bathroom during the commute, at work, or when there's no quick access. I literally starve
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    and dehydrate myself once a week just to stay compliant. I've started documenting everything, and once I'm in a safer position (I'm currently in the middle of closing on a house), I
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    plan to escalate. But right now? I'm exhausted. Just needed to say it out loud.
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    eossfound... . 6h ago It's not your health condition prohibiting your performance, it's the out of commission bathroom that is.
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    OhmHome... 5h ago • Don't skip meals, make your chronic condition their problem and also report this to HR and ADA. You are being denied reasonable accommodation.
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    Apprehen... 4h ago Was your boss dumb enough to put that in writing? If so, I recommend speaking with an employment/discrimi nation attorney asap. It's a free consultation.
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