28-year-old refuses to allow 30-year-old sister to hold her bouquet at her wedding, she gets her petty revenge by refusing younger sister’s proposal at hers: “Why should I do what she asks?”

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Briana Viser • Writer and Editor
Jun 11, 2025 12:00 PM EDT

Petty revenge is something we all have fantasies about. How many times has some entitled someone wronged you, someone who you know deserves to be punished (but not too harshly), someone who can learn a thing or two about life. These entitled people can come into our lives in any way. They could be our parents, siblings, coworkers, or a random stranger. In the story below, it centers around two sisters who seek petty revenge on each other. 
 

If you like hearing about revenge served cold then these stories are for you. One sister refuses to allow her older sister to hold her bouquet at her wedding, despite the older one trying to use it for good luck. So what does the older sister do in response? She gets her revenge by refusing to allow the younger sister to do her marriage proposal at her wedding. Read the full story below for all the juicy details, and don't forget to comment who you think is in the right. 

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    AITAH for refusing to do something special on my wedding day for my sister because she refused to do something for me at hers?

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    I (30F) I'm getting married this Sunday, and my sister Jessical (28F) got married two years ago. A couple of weeks before her wedding my ex left me for
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  • These women really are sisters, they're exactly the same. They're both consumed with revenge on each other, and being the right one. Maybe if they both take a step back and analyze the other with a lens of love, then they wouldn't be in this situation. 

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    another woman, and it was devastating because I thought that he was going to propose soon. At my sister's wedding I asked her if she could throw the bouquet to me as to wish me
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    luck, but she refused and said that she didn't wanna damage it. I asked her to lend it to me for a couple of pics instead and she
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    refused that too. I said nothing more and I didn't bring it up again until now.
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    Okay, my sister is pregnant and wants to announce it at my wedding, she asked and I said absolutely not. When she asked why I told her that 1. The
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    wedding is for my fiance and I; 2. She didn't do what I asked her to do at her wedding, so why would I do what she asks in mine?
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    She's ped and says that I'm being ridiculous. Our mother says that I'm being childish. AITAH?
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    SmoochNo 9h ago NTA for not wanting a pregnancy announcement at your wedding but I guarantee she's going to make one
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    DazzlingPotion ⚫9h ago NTA but she's going to announce it anyway.
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    Quiet-Hamster6509 • 9h ago You can absolutely guarantee she or your mother will announce it at your wedding anyway.
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    Puzzled-Safe4801 ⚫ 9h ago She is going to announce it. Have a plan in place with your band or DJ and with your friends to shut her sh down.
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    PoetPuzzleheaded... 9h ago Drop a note to the emcee or the DJ to mute the mic if sister/mom wants to start talking about the pregnancy.
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    jorceshaman • 9h ago ΝΤΑ The flower thing was a MUCH MUCH smaller ask and she couldn't do it for you. Announcing your pregnancy at someone else's wedding is insanity!
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    Decent_Ad6389 • 8h ago When she announces it at your wedding, which I agree is 100% going to happen, have ready an invoice for exactly half of the wedding. I'm serious.
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    Vegetable-Cod-2340 ⚫ 9h ago NTA Also warn your DJ that if your sister starts to speak to he should turn up the music. because she's definitely going to try to announce it anyway.
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    Melodic-Skin9045 • 9h ago NTA but not because you want revenge. Your wedding should only be about you. Make certain she does not get the microphone or make an announcement.
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    CtrlAltDiscuss • 9h ago NTA. Your wedding is about you and your fiancé, not a stage for someone else's big moment, especially someone who couldn't extend you even a small
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    courtesy at her own wedding. You're not obligated to make a special exception for someone who refused to do the same for you. Holding people to their own standard isn't childish, it's fair.
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