28-year-old refuses to allow 30-year-old sister to hold her bouquet at her wedding, she gets her petty revenge by refusing younger sister’s proposal at hers: “Why should I do what she asks?”

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    AITAH for refusing to do something special on my wedding day for my sister because she refused to do something for me at hers?

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    I (30F) I'm getting married this Sunday, and my sister Jessical (28F) got married two years ago. A couple of weeks before her wedding my ex left me for
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    another woman, and it was devastating because I thought that he was going to propose soon. At my sister's wedding I asked her if she could throw the bouquet to me as to wish me
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    luck, but she refused and said that she didn't wanna damage it. I asked her to lend it to me for a couple of pics instead and she
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    refused that too. I said nothing more and I didn't bring it up again until now.
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    Okay, my sister is pregnant and wants to announce it at my wedding, she asked and I said absolutely not. When she asked why I told her that 1. The
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    wedding is for my fiance and I; 2. She didn't do what I asked her to do at her wedding, so why would I do what she asks in mine?
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    She's ped and says that I'm being ridiculous. Our mother says that I'm being childish. AITAH?
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    SmoochNo 9h ago NTA for not wanting a pregnancy announcement at your wedding but I guarantee she's going to make one
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    DazzlingPotion ⚫9h ago NTA but she's going to announce it anyway.
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    Quiet-Hamster6509 • 9h ago You can absolutely guarantee she or your mother will announce it at your wedding anyway.
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    Puzzled-Safe4801 ⚫ 9h ago She is going to announce it. Have a plan in place with your band or DJ and with your friends to shut her sh down.
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    PoetPuzzleheaded... 9h ago Drop a note to the emcee or the DJ to mute the mic if sister/mom wants to start talking about the pregnancy.
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    jorceshaman • 9h ago ΝΤΑ The flower thing was a MUCH MUCH smaller ask and she couldn't do it for you. Announcing your pregnancy at someone else's wedding is insanity!
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    Decent_Ad6389 • 8h ago When she announces it at your wedding, which I agree is 100% going to happen, have ready an invoice for exactly half of the wedding. I'm serious.
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    Vegetable-Cod-2340 ⚫ 9h ago NTA Also warn your DJ that if your sister starts to speak to he should turn up the music. because she's definitely going to try to announce it anyway.
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    Melodic-Skin9045 • 9h ago NTA but not because you want revenge. Your wedding should only be about you. Make certain she does not get the microphone or make an announcement.
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    CtrlAltDiscuss • 9h ago NTA. Your wedding is about you and your fiancé, not a stage for someone else's big moment, especially someone who couldn't extend you even a small
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    courtesy at her own wedding. You're not obligated to make a special exception for someone who refused to do the same for you. Holding people to their own standard isn't childish, it's fair.

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