17-year-old demands dad buy him $80k convertible, father grounds him instead after school principal reveals his bratty misbehavior: “My son isn’t getting his phone or Xbox anytime soon”

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    AITA for refusing to buy my son a car after he mocked a kid in his private school about his dad being the janitor

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    Never thought I would come to reddit for this shi but let me give some context, I own a construction company which is moderately successful in my side
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    of the city so I'm decently well off so my son has had the privilege to be sent to a private school in a better part of the city, but the downside is that being surrounded by kids who's fathers
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    own skyscrapers is giving him higher expectations, and in junior year he joined this obnoxious friend group which always wear designer everything and are really spoilt, one of these kids even
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    drives an Aston Martin, couple years later in his senior years he's still in the same friend group with the same friends, (atleast they're loyal lol) and one day one of the kids called Brandon (not his real
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    name for obvious reasons) kept bugging him on why he didn't have a "proper" car. (At this time he drove a 2016 Toyota RAV4
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    which ain't even that bad but compared to this kids Lexus it wasn't the flashiest.)
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    So two days later he asks to speak to me in private away from his mother and little brother, I went downstairs to the couch and he asked me if I could buy him a new car, I was expecting him to
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    say like an audi or smth small, but no, this boy proceeded to show me a black bmw convertible, I asked him how much it was, he said $80K. $80K?? Boy you must
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    be crazy cause I ain't buying you an 80 grand car when you're 17. Now I wouldn't have considered it anyway but the fact that his principal called me the
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    day before about an incident with his classmate makes it a definite no no. He had bed this called Austin for a couple months because his dad worked as the
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    school janitor and worked overtime to keep him in the school district, he made fun of Austin's clothes and other things which sent me into a fury when I heard about him, but we're
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    talking about the same boy who apologied to furniture when he was 11, so I was a bit skeptical, so after he asked me, I asked him about the allegations with Austin,
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    and this boy either inherited my braincells or he's just a full on idiot because he confirmed the whole thing, his exact words "that charity case needs to know he's in
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    the wrong crowd". I did not raise this kid to be a buy so I instantly grounded him and made him write an apology letter to Austin and made him send it. Oh you
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    thought I was done boy, oh h no, I scheduled a meeting with Austin's dad and the principal, Austin and my son were also there, i must have counted to 100 by the amount of times I
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    apologized. But I knew my sweet boy wasn't the issue, it's that group of incompetent idiots he calls his friends, they are just pinning the blame on my boy, and he's so desperate for
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    popularity he takes it, though I amped off at the whole situation, so my son isn't getting his phone or Xbox anytime soon, and definitely not a convertible.
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    I'll post an update if there's anything new but probably not since it's a private matter and I just need to blow off some steam
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    Update: okay, thank you for the support and my final decision is that I will pull him out of private school and put him in a public school, he's also going to be
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    volunteering at the local homeless shelter so he can learn what real empathy is, and hes going to be wearing normal clothes from now on, thank you
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    all for making me realize how blind i've been all this time and I blamed his friends for all his trouble, but I forgot he was his
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    own person and makes his own choices, and hes gonna be taking the bus to school from now on, I'll do a final update to see how it goes
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    Dreamybook1357 • 10h ago Ntah but don't pin it on his friends. 17 years old & doesn't have a backbone?
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    He would have to put the work in & buy his own secondhand car. & If you hear another word of bu ying, he can pay his own phone bill too.

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