‘There’s only one bed, so she’s sleeping in it’: 27-year-old woman starts dating a 44-year-old man, only to discover his “roommate” is a woman her own age who doesn’t pay rent and cozies up to his family

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  • AIO the guy (44m) that I(27f) recently started dating is defending his “roommate"

    "He paid $1500 to fly me out... I told him she made me very uncomfortable"
  • I recently started dating a guy and I really like him. He told me he was letting a "friend" stay at his house
  • and I didn't think anything of it. Come to find out it's a girl my age who doesn't contribute financially at all.
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  • Yesterday he calls his brother, and she answers the phone very enthusiastically screaming
  • "oh my gosh honey I've missed you hello!!!!" My stomach immediately dropped not only for her
  • HIGH
  • reaction but now I know she's close to his family also. She later shows up to where we are and is
  • making is very clear she doesn't want to meet me, when she finally comes to the firepit where I'm at she
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  • is glaring at me, eventually someone calls her out and says "why are you being weird to her? Don't be
  • r de" and she goes "oh I'm not I'm only mad at him" and points to the guy I'm dating.
  • I'm confused because earlier on the phone she was acting the complete opposite with him. Also
  • that night he told me that we're camping, which I thought was weird, and then I found out it was
  • because his house is getting construction and there's only one bed so she's sleeping in it. So
  • basically he paid $1500 to fly me out to sleep in a small tent. I told him she made me very
  • uncomfortable and I'm not interested in being around her again, he basically told me that's just how she is and she was dr_nk. But
  • they also drink EVERY night heavily so if this is how she acts when she's drinking I feel like this is
  • how she acts every night then. I feel bad for even saying it bothers me because like I said she
  • attends his family events so clearly she means a lot to not only him but his family and I feel like if I say I don't want them
  • interacting with each other anymore everyone will think I'm the dramatic one. I'm not sure if I should just cut him off over her or what...

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