Late Aunt Bea leaves her entire estate to her beloved dog, waging an inheritance battle between her niece and nephew, who both cared for the pooch in his elder years: ‘He ditched the dog’

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  • AITAH for claiming my aunts inheritance when it was originally intended for my brother? This is long but the details are necessary for the full picture. Using fake names for all humans, but not for the goodest boy Troy, who deserves true recognition.
  • My (30f) Aunt Bea (87f) just passed at the end of last year. Aunt Bea had an older dog that she got after the death of her only son over 15 years ago. The goodest boy, Troy. He was her survival. Troy became her son in a 4 legged friend. She definitely liked him more than any of us or anyone in general. He was a pampered pooch & she made sure of it.
  • Fast forward to February of last year where the downfall of Aunt Bea began. She was hospitalized after getting an infection from a knee replacement that just started a snowball of other health issues, eventually taking her in October.
  • During her original hospitalization, John (35m, my brother) took Troy in his care. John and I lived together at the time, but life was crazy busy for me and I had no time to help with Troy. John did absolutely everything for him the first 3 months until he moved in with his boyfriend. No pets allowed, so Troy had to stay.
  • John worked near the house, so would stop by 2-3 times a week to do some of the ridiculous extras Aunt Bea required. Other than that, Troy's care was solely on me. He seriously was the best dog ever & old as dirt, so I did my absolute best to follow Aunt Bea's request for Troy. And i really did try to give him the best rest of his life without his mom.
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  • In February of this year, almost to the date of Aunt Bea's first surgery, Troy went to be with her. My kids & I took it harder than I thought we would. I ended making a memorial for him in our garden & burying his ashes with Aunt Bea, per her request.
  • That was it with Aunt Bea and Troy, other than the random waves of grief from such good memories, they were gone. Or so I thought. Right after Troy passed, I was contacted from an attorney about her estate. I go through with meeting the attorney about all she
  • had, and she didn't have much. She was never married and worked random receptionist/secretary jobs her whole life. Owned a small 2-bedroom home until early 80's when she moved into an assisted living home, which was crazy expensive.
  • Well, she left it all to me. What little was left, became mine. I literally had no clue. I didn't know what was happening with her estate, nor did I really care. Other than Troy, we were the technical next of kin. If I actually gave it a thought, I probably could've assumed I might've been involved, but I digress.
  • Well, John knew we were in line. Or expected to be in line. I guess there was a conversation between him and Aunt Bea in the hospital where she told him that she was leaving everything to Troy, so whoever had him. And at the time, that was him. Once he found out I received everything, he flipped out.
  • Calling me a mooch, spreading lies about my care for Troy & other heinous things that just aren't true. He's made it a point to tell everyone that the only reason I took Troy was for the money.
  • He did end up moving, just this month, to a place he could've taken Troy back. Not that that matters. We haven't spoken in over a month now. He is still smearing my name to anyone who will listen and I am taking what Aunt Bea left me to get my little family just a bit ahead for the first time. So I ask, AITAH for claiming her inheritance?
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  • Exotic-Knowledge-243. NTA he is. He clearly took the dog to get her money and then dumped him on you to live with his boyfriend. It is clear he should get nothing. He ditched the dog. You took care of the dog and didn't know anything about getting anything for it. He is a scummy AH and to spread lies about you after.....
  • Literal_Cheesehead12⚫ NTA. The estate was left to whomever took in/care of Troy. John did that for, what, 3 months? And then you did the rest for another 9? Sounds like you fulfilled your aunt's wishes and John didn't, so John can kick rocks.
  • Particular-Reserve99 . He could have talked it out with you in a calm way. However after the badmouthing the bridges are burnt. Respect the will and don't look back.
  • EuropeSusan NTA. you could split the inheritance by the number of months each of you took care of Troy. That would be fair for the both of you.
  • AcanthocephalaOne285. NTA Though i think I'd have offered a quarter or a third because he did have him for the 3 months and kept helping out 2-3 times a week.

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