Roommate moves out and leaves their dog behind with remaining roommate, who becomes the pup's foster parent while searching for an adopting family: ‘I can't keep the dog any longer'

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    A woman laying on a bed next to a dog
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    AITAH for not accepting a dog I rehomed back after adopter wants to return them ?

    Rehomed my pet a week ago and now the adopter seems like they want to give them back
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    I was fostering a pet from my former roommate who moved out and initially told me they had to find a new home while they got settled
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    in their new place. They were a friend so despite my reluctance, I agreed. Long story short, days turned into weeks, weeks turned into
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    months. Eventually the roommate ended up ghosting me and I was stuck with the dog.
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    Fast forward began the process of moving and couldn't keep the dog any longer so I began searching for a home. The dog wasn't
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    neutered or anything so it was quite hard, but ended up finding a couple who said they'd take him in.
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    A week later today the adopter messaged me and said the dog and her dog weren't really getting along well. She didn't flat out ask if
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    I could take him back but it seemed implied. I'm moving in a week out of state so | really cannot take him back
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    even if I wanted to. But I feel bad what would you do? Should I even respond ?
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    a dog laying on top of a bed next to a window
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    pinche_loca666 I would explain the move and that while you're potentially able to get them in contact with some of the other people who may have shown interest
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    in taking him when you were looking but you can't take the dog in yourself again. This poor dog though that's so sad that the roommate did that.
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    My first roommate and unfortunately my second both. put me in similar predicaments and it's always sad.
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    Future-Designer2062 I feel so bad for the pupper, but no you aren't. Communicate with the adopters that taking him back is not an option. Maybe there
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    is some kind of training or something that helps dogs get used to each other that the adopters can find? Or maybe they can find a new home for him. Or you can suggest they
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    look into a foster program that will place him in a home until a good permanent home can be found. I just pray he isn't put in a shelter, he almost definitely wouldn't adjust well.
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    Imaginary-Yak-6487 Nta. It's their dog now. She's got to be patient & let them acclimate to one another. If they don't, she can adopt the dog out to someone else.

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