Aunt and cousin mocked woman and her daughter for years, she exposes them online after they dared her to: 'They didn't expect the abundance of support I'd get'

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  • "My aunt & cousin have been mean to me my entire life. I told them the truth will eventually come out."

    I have an aunt and cousin who have always hated me and aren't afraid to show it. I always attempted to kill them with kindness because I knew the truth would come out someday. Well the truth came
  • out when they dared me to post "the truth" on social media. So I did. I got so much support that the post spread like crazy. Here are a few things I called them out on:
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  • 1. I took off work and spent $500 to fly to my cousin's wedding. When I showed up, I realized I was the only family member who didn't get a seat at the family table at the reception (Yes, I RSVP'd). So I spent the
  • entire night sitting alone. as people walked by me asking me why I wasn't sitting with my brother, his wife, and my parents. 2. I adopted my daughter from foster care. I asked them why they aren't
  • nice to her. They said because it's weird for me to bring "a stranger" to family events. Seriously? Don't attack my daughter for being adopted. She's been through enough.
  • 3. They accused me of not raising my daughter because my mom watches her when I'm at work. My mom gets paid by daughter's insurance. to watch her due to the severity of her special needs. If it wasn't my
  • mom (my daughter's grandma) watching her, then it would be a random staff member watching her while I'm at work. I asked how that differs from having a babysitter. They said.
  • "because your daughter is older and shouldn't need a babysitter." Again, my daughter has special needs and trained staff have to watch her. And I need to have a job. I'm sorry that
  • my mom is willing to watch her granddaughter and my aunt is not willing to watch hers. 4. They told me to stop posting photos of my daughter on Facebook. I
  • asked why they're allowed to post photos of their kids, but I'm not. They said it's because mom's are allowed to post photos of their own kids. Again, they don't
  • consider my daughter "my kid" because she's adopted. 5. They said I adopted my daughter "all for show." #%! Which is absolute bulls . I fostered her before adopting her and
  • very few people knew because I wasn't allowed to talk about her case. So there was no show there. Not to mention I'm a single mom who sacrificed A LOT to adopt my daughter and
  • it is not an easy life. Anyone who has adopted from foster care or has a special needs child knows it's hard and certainly not worth "the show."
  • AITAH for publicly putting them on blast after they dared me to? I don't think they expected me to actually do it. I definitely know they didn't expect the abundance. of support I would get as people in my small town shared the post... oops
  • Senior_Reaction2974 Good heavens. NTA....they are not healthy for you or your child.
  • SpaceNinjaNarwal Nta as someone who grew up in foster care, you adopting a child who needed someone on their side, to care and give them a home touches my heart,
  • not all foster kids are lucky enough to find their forever family, and your aunt is definitely TA for treating that precious child like she isn't an important part of your family
  • Chance-Contract-1290 NTA. Today's Lesson: Don't do things that would make you look bad if other people found out about them.
  • AlternativeLie9486 NTA for publishing their nastiness. But you really need to cut them off.
  • Chocolatecandybar_ NTA but I would pay to see the comments
  • Malphas43 NTA and good for you. Be sure to update us as things progress and spread. I'm sure at
  • some point you'll have people reaching out to you with lies they had been told about you by aunt and cousin.
  • Aggravating-Aa74 NTA. Being the bigger person does run out at some point, and you need. to go for the throat (figuratively). Good for you.
  • sjclynn You are so NTA. You are a vet. You have a PHD
  • You adopted and care for a special needs child. Your aunt and cousin don't deserve to even carry your luggage.
  • I do have a question. If you were my daughter, you would not have been sitting alone no matter how small the table was. Why did your parents go along with that?

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