‘We are not rich at all’: Frugal brother catches his unemployed sibling buying an expensive LEGO set with their mom's credit card, teaches him a lesson about family and finances

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  • My brother thinks my mom pays for all my stuff so he ordered a LEGO set online S My brother is so entitled and it drives me crazy.
  • Our mom runs a small convenience store. She works long hours just to cover our daily expenses and school needs. We are not rich at all, but my brother acts like we are. I see how much my mom struggles every single day, and it honestly makes me sad because the stress has really changed her.
  • I do online freelancing as a side hustle, so I make my own money. It is not a huge income, but it is enough for me to buy the things I want or treat myself to food I like. Whenever I order from Amazon, I pay with my own money. But my brother refuses to believe that and insists my mom pays for everything I get.
  • One day he decided to order a LEGO set online. It was not cheap, and it was honestly a waste of money because he has no income at all. Of course my mom ended up paying for it. When my mom confronted him, he said he only bought it because he was jealous of me. He
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  • claimed my mom buys everything for me and that all my money actually comes from her. He admitted he thought his LEGO order would just be delivered and automatically paid for by our mom, just like he assumed mine were. Now my mom is upset, I am annoyed, and my brother is still acting like the world owes him everything.
  • tatortot1003. Return it. Take away his access to the account.
  • mrdino99 Your mom should've returned it and given your brother a harsh lesson in reality. He's an because she allows him to be one. If that was my brother........
  • Cute Recognition_880. Password protect the account. Return the Lego. Those sets are expensive!
  • TaisharMalkier69. Lock up all financial access. Your mother should lock up all her cards and accounts. You should do the same. Also, log out from Amazon and every other website, every single time.
  • 13artC. Talk to your mother. Take it off him. Give him consequences for theft. Give him a part-time job where he can earn what he wants. Your mother sounds like a saint, but if she doesn't teach him consequences for this, she's setting g him up to be a criminal, or worse and entitled j
  • SecretOscarOG ⚫ Cancel the order or return it immediately and get that kid away from any electronics capable of ordering sh. Logout of everything, change passwords, etc
  • HUNGWHITEBOI25. Ok your brother DOES sound like a total brat...but can you not just return the stuff he bought for a refund?
  • Pounding TheStreets How old is your brother? In all honesty, while he's behaving like a spoiled child, if he's a dependent child then this is down to your mother to police. That Lego set absolutely must be returned and you need a family conversation about finances.
  • GolfGuy_824 First, your mom should return the Lego set. It doesn't matter if he thinks she buys everything you order, she doesn't. By paying for it and letting him keep it, she's feeding into what he thinks she does. Her being mad at him about it won't stop him from doing it again, he now thinks she's mad he did it but paid for it because she now feels bad that "she pays for your stuff."
  • Second, after returning it your mom should tell him that he can make his own money and buy all the Lego sets he wants with his own money. Maybe she can show him that you're paying for your own stuff and while that likely won't change his feeling of entitlement, it will at least show him that she's not playing favorites.

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