Entitled sister expects her sibling to dogsit Copper the Golden Retriever without notice, but fails to ask ahead or say thank you: 'She said she "forgot" and that she had already booked her flight'

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  • Woman watching a friend's golden retriever.
  • [I told] my sister I won't be her "backup plan" for her dog anymore

    My sister has a golden retriever named Copper, he's three years old and genuinely the sweetest dog I've ever met. For about a year I've been her go-to dog sitter whenever she travels for work,
  • which used to be maybe once a month. I was happy to do it, I work from home, Copper and I get along great, it felt like a nice arrangement for everyone.
  • Dogsitting a golden retriever.
  • The problem is it's gotten completely out of hand. She now travels almost every other week and just assumes I'm available. She stopped asking in advance,
  • she just sends me a message like "dropping Copper off Thursday, back Sunday" with zero notice and zero question mark at the end. Last month I had a close
  • friend visiting from out of town for the first time in two years and I had already told my sister I wasn't available that weekend. She showed up anyway, said she
  • "forgot" and that she had already booked her flight. I watched him that weekend because I felt cornered but I was frustrated the entire time.
  • This week she did it again. I told her no, that I had plans and she needed to find a boardig option or hire a walker. She got genuinely upset and said I was being selfish
  • Sweet golden retriever dog waiting by the door.
  • because Copper "doesn't do well with strangers" and that I was the only person he trusted. I told her that wasn't my responsibilty to manage and that she needed to
  • stop treating me like a standing reservation she never actually made. She hasn't texted me since. I feel bad because I love that dog, but I dont think I did anything wrong here. Did I?
  • Chandlerdd . You did nothing wrong. Sadly your sister took advantage and now she's pouting because she didn't get her way.
  • Da... You absolutely did nothing wrong. Copper is her dog, not yours. She needs to find a reliable boarding facility.
  • SunshineGirl1230 OP, you are not the AH here. Your sister is, however. You told her on a few occasions that you weren't available, and she just drops the dog off, assuming you're free. But she
  • really should realize there are other options out there, such as doggy day care, dog walkers, boarding, etc.
  • You need to go NC with her if she keeps this up. She needs to learn that she can't just drop her dog off just any old time she feels like. You have a life.
  • You may love that dog, but you can only take so much. You take care of yourself and do what you have to do. Your life can't revolve around watching her dog.

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