Employee worries quitting after 5 months will look bad on their resume, internet reminds them life’s too short to stay in a job that makes them miserable: 'I don’t think I can keep doing this'

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  • I'm at my wits end. Is it bad to leave a job after 5 months? I know quitting isn't good without something lined up well I do have a factory job if I really need to supplement my income.
  • Currently work at a college and it's just horrible politics. Everyone is out for bl d. I have a meeting tomorrow with my boss and I've already gotten 5 emails tonight from her.
  • I had to take a mental health day today. It's unbearable. I can't sleep, I have terrible anxiety. I feel bad for leaving my coworkers but I already packed out my desk. It's just all complete bulls.
  • In any case. I think I'll land on my feet. My family will be disappointed but I'm single and 38 no kids. Living with my sister because this job took me to a new city.
  • I'm sure I'll look like a failure but I can't do this. I've thrown up at work. Am I crazy for quitting??
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  • bambi2501 Nothing is more important than your health and your life
  • Go_Big_Resumes It's clarity. Mental health is real, and if your body is reacting physically, that's a flashing red light. Short stints happen, especially when a workplace is corrosive. Take a breath, lean on family, and plan your next move, whatever it is, it'll be better than staying and breaking down.
  • Impossible-Toe-7761 I just quit my toxic work place.25 months of getting up at 2 am,opening a bakery for 18$ an hour,never a raise.Snarky coworkers that can't bake, spreading lies, like I'm opening people's lockers..what if I'm putting poison in them? I'm not kidding.Good luck,they can't do what I do
  • bladedancer661 Five months isn't that long in the grand scheme, especially if it's wrecking your health. I once stayed in a toxic place way past the point of throwing up from anxiety and I wish I'd trusted that signal sooner. Looking like a "failure" to someone else isn't worth feeling sick every day.
  • mm_potentially I quit a job on my 3rd day because i knew just by the attitude of management (i.e drinking my energy drink amongst other things) that it wasn't going to go well. If i would've stayed i would've surrendered to mass amounts of verbal and maybe physical ab e. Time frame isn't what matters, what matters is you tried and the time frame just shows for that. 5 Months and dealing what you dealt with is brave and at the same time, i think its best you go your own way and find something bet
  • OP Warm-Zookeepergame83 I did it!!!! Wow! It's so freeing! I gave a month notice because l need to save money and and need health insurance but just knowing I'm going to be free at last!!!
  • ejrob815 If it makes you feel any better; I quit that aforementioned job with no notice over DM after being a top trusted member of the team for years and years. It was really awkward for about 10 minutes during my exit interview and equipment drop off, and then everything was cool after. New job is peachy keen. Of course | could've ripped off the bandaid forever ago but I wasted years agonizing, having panic attacks, dread on Sunday nights etc. and turns out that was much harder than the awkwar
  • OP Warm-Zookeepergame83 Yup! I gotta pull the bandaid off. Something better will come along. I have enough saved up for 9 months in emergency funds.
  • ejrob815 Leave! If you're getting physically ill over the job it's your gut telling you that you must go. I was once throwing up from stress consistently at a soul-sucking job and stuck it through for years. All in all I spent the better part of a decade there and the job took more from me than I got from it. Now that I'm out and see the other side my only regret is not quitting earlier, when I thought it might look bad perception wise.
  • OP Warm-Zookeepergame83 Thank you for your reply. I think I'm gonna quit tomorrow. Fingers crossed I actually go through with it!
  • Random_NYer_18 You are NOT crazy. Jobs like this break your will. It's not worth it if you can afford to leave. I've had two really bad managers in my career and the mental struggle was real. I thought about quitting every day but didn't (spouse, kids, mortgage, etc). I'm fortunate now to be with an excellent manager (though the job isn't great), so it's bearable. Apply now for jobs. Immediately. Use your contacts. You'll be thankful you left (again, if you can afford it).
  • OP Warm-Zookeepergame83 It's just actually doing it and not backing down. I'm absolutely miserable. I know there will be stress and anxiety for not having a job, but I can't live like this. Thank you for your reply. I'll be in touch.

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