Passenger confronts Mom of infant, 4, and 5-year-olds after 'grueling' flight

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  • Little girl peers out the window of an airplane.
  • Am I wrong for yelling at a mother of 3 on a flight?

    Yesterday, I was on a full 7am flight leaving from San Fran to Chicago. The flight was expected to be 4 hours and 15 minutes. With boarding, take off and landing, I was looking at about 5 hours with b t in chair on the aircraft.
  • Once I was settled in my seat preparing my eye mask and neck pillow to knock tf out, I realized two feet were kicking me in my back. I could actually feel both feet as United's seats were soft and it was nearly direct contact with my back. I
  • Baby sits on airplane seat.
  • turned around to look through the crack and saw child maybe around 3-4 y/o sitting directly behind me, another child around 4-5 y/o next to her and a mom holding an infant sitting next to him. I slowly turned around and realized the gravity of my
  • situation and that this would need to be handled delicately. I first waited about 10 minutes to see if mom was going to recognize that the child was consistently putting her feet on the back of the
  • chair and tell her to stop. Mom said nothing. Her and her brother were also tapping the entertainment screen on my chair, which I could feel, and messing with the trey table, to which I could also feel. I was so tired and knew I wasn't going to be able to
  • sleep like this so before we took off I mustered up enough confidence to turn around and I very polity asked mom "if she could be mindful that her daughter was kicking my chair and if she could please see to it that she stopped.” Mom said sorry
  • she "she didn't realize" and I sat back down. I questioned how if you were watching your kids. with your own eyes you wouldn't see their feet on the chair, but okay.
  • No less than 30 seconds later the kid was kicking my chair again and I accepted it would simply be a long flight. I managed to fall asleep but about an hour into the flight I was woken up because the little girl was opening and closing the
  • window shade right behind where my head was resting on the wall. I couldn't fall back asleep so I spent the next 3 hours getting kick, having my chair pulled cause the kids were pulling the tre back and forth and having light come in and out
  • because she was messing with the shade. The kid was rotating between one of these three things for the entire flight. I just sat there, said nothing to anyone and suffered. The mom would say "stop" or use a stern "scary" voice and grit
  • "get your feet down" or "don't mess with that" but the little girl really didn't care or listen and just kept doing all of it the entire flight.
  • Finally, once we landed the taxi to the gate took a grueling 30 minutes. Toward the end the kid started getting fussy and having a bit of a fit so she repeatedly started kicking the back of the chair. I couldn't take it anymore. so I stood up, turned
  • around and yelled "please get your kid to stop kicking the chair, please, I can't take this anymore!" I sat back down fuming at the situation and how a person could allow their kid to do this to someone else. I was tired and
  • cranky and I felt bad that I snapped like that. Am I the a hole for yelling at the mom? I get traveling with three kids is hard let alone 3 but she had another adult with her that she could have used. for help. She wasn't alone. And I think there
  • had to have been something she could have done to prepare for such a long flight like have toys, activities sh even snacks to help the kids occupy their time and hands.
  • Mathem... Even for a full flight, it's still best to make the flight attendant aware of the situation. Also maybe they would have a solution you don't know of, such as shuffling the
  • seating arrangement of the family.
  • Pastafa... I use my stern preschool teacher voice and speak directly to the kid. "Please stop kicking my chair, I don't like that."
  • Imagine going from being kicked in the back 30 times a minute to getting the first-class treatment!

    yankykiwi You should have asked the attendant if there was another open seat elsewhere. They might have bumped you to first
  • lydocia You should've asked the flight attendant to handle it. I might've turned to the child and said "stop, you are hurting me" directly.
  • I don't understand why adults don't explain to their kids WHY they aren't allowed to do something fun.
  • Mom comforts her baby while they sit together on a plane.

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