Neighbor agrees to watch resident's dog for a few hours, only for it to turn into 3 days when the owner refuses to come back in time: ‘I knew you wouldn't mind’

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Bar Mor Hazut • Senior Editor
Apr 23, 2026 10:30 AM EDT

Some people don't deserve favors because they just turn them into free labor the second they get a chance.

We all know at least one person like that. They ask a small favor of you, something easy enough that shouldn't take a lot of time and effort, but as soon as you agree, they manage to turn it into this huge, consuming thing that you probably should have been getting paid for doing. 

There are plenty of ways people can turn a favor into a free service. Some do it by asking a friend to give them a 5-minute drive to the mall, which turns the friend into their private Uber. Others do it by asking a family member to watch their kid for an hour, then turn it into an 8-hour daycare. However they do it, all these people are really doing is pushing their friends and family away from them, and causing anyone who knows them to question whether or not they should do them a favor the next time they ask.

The dog owner below asked her neighbor for a small favor that definitely did not feel like a big deal at first. All the neighbor was asked to do was to watch her dog for a few hours, so the neighbor agreed. After those few hours had passed, the neighbor texted the owner to ask when she was coming back, but was met with a vague timeline and a sense that the dog was going to stay in their care for much longer.

Every time the neighbor asked the owner when she plans to come back, the owner pushed back their return, until this "few hours" favor turned into a 3-day dog-sitting job that the neighbor definitely did not get paid for.

When the owner finally returned, she didn't even apologize or look slightly remorseful for what she put her neighbor through. All she did was give the neighbor a candle as a thank you and went off with her poor dog. Safe to say that the next time she asks for a favor, she won't get it from her next-door neighbor…

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  • My neighbor asked me to "watch her dog for a few hours" and it turned into a 3 day situation

    So my neighbor Sarah has a medium sized golden mix, super sweet dog, no issues with the dog itself. About two weeks ago she knocked on my door around noon and asked if I could watch him for "just a few
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  • hours" while she ran some errands. I like the dog, I was home, I said sure. She dropped him off with half a bag of food and a leash. No other info, no vet contact, nothing. By 8pm she hadn't come back. I texted
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  • her, she said she was "running a little late" and would be back soon. By midnight I texted again and she said something came up and she'd get him in the morning. Okay. Fine. I set up a little area for him and went to bed.
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  • Next morning, nothing. I texted again around 10am. She said she was dealing with "a situation" and would be there by afternoon. Afternoon came and went. That evening she finally responded to say she
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  • was out of town and would be back the day after tomorrow, and thanked me for being such a great neighbor. I was not told I was dog sitting for three days.
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  • I had plans that second day that I had to rearrange. I had to buy more food because she hadn't left enough. When she finally came to pick him up she brought me a candle as thanks and said "I knew you wouldn't mind."
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  • I did not say I wouldn't mind. I said I'd watch him for a few hours. Those are different things. The candle smells nice though.
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  • BudgetLobster5639 You are much nicer than I am.
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  • Prism Naught OP the dog was really good company so it wasn't the worst 3 days. it's more the "I knew you wouldn't mind" that got me. like at least pretend you're aware you overstepped
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  • Any_Meeting_4082 I would have told her that first night to let me know where she was and I'd drop the dog off to her. Or another family member of hers I would be dropping the dog off at. I would say that was not the arrangement agreed to and I needed to give the dog back.
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  • If not, I'd place a call for animal abandonment. Don't do stupid sh & think you can get away with it. Poor doggo! Nope, not being a doormat or taken advantage of. She now knows she can get away with this again with you.
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  • Prism Naught OP yeah in hindsight I should've pushed back harder that first night. I think I kept assuming she'd show up any minute and then it just kept going. won't be making that mistake again
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  • hardlooses Block her number. That's insane
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  • Prism Naught OP lol I mean she's my direct neighbor so that feels extreme, but noted
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  • ScreamingLabia You know op what those words mean? What she actually said was "i knew i could walk all over you and disrespect you"
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  • Prism Naught OP yeah that's probably the more accurate read. "I knew you wouldn't mind" really does translate to "I decided for you and didn't feel the need to ask"
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  • Any_Meeting_4082 If you have to be polite as a neighbor, that's your prerogative, but I would NEVER let her ask for ANY favor in the future. No is a complete sentence. No, nope, sorry I can't. You don't owe any explanation as to your decline of whatever she asks either.
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  • Prism Naught OP yeah "no" is a full sentence, you're right. I think being neighbors made me feel like I had to keep it civil but I don't owe her an explanation for any of it
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  • Forward-Amount-9961 My coworker asked me to watch her golden for a week while she moved. Never heard from her again and we ended up loving that dog for the rest of its life.
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  • Drycabin1 I'm very worried about the dog! She seems totally irresponsible and not at all concerned about him.
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  • Live-Tomorrow-4865 Thank you for being kind to that dog. I wonder how much care he is given by his rightful human. He probably had three great days with you.
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  • I'm sure it was an inconvenience and I can see why you are annoyed, but, never doubt that you did right by a dog who, sadly, seems to be somewhat of an afterthought on the part of the person who is supposed to care for him.
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