Guy warns his ex she can’t afford the apartment she insisted on keeping, she takes it anyway, then blames him when money gets tight: '"Obviously this is fully her fault"

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  • AITAH for “leaving” my ex gf to pay rent she can’t afford?

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  • My ex 22F and I 25M broke up end of April, I let her takeover the lease of my old place and I left July 1st to get my own
  • place once again. The moment we broke up and mentioned separate living arrangements she was very adamant on
  • taking over the lease, she didn't wanna pay a new deposit on a place and she has all her stuff here and whatnot,
  • would've been a lot to move it. I made it clear it's not smart for her to stay as the rent price is about 65% of her income and after doing the math it
  • would be very tight on her end, she'd have like $200/mo leftover AT BEST, vs for me it's about 35% of mine and I was well over $1k/mo leftover
  • Man in a gray sweatshirt raises a hand to his temple while standing against a red background.
  • I told her I'd gladly help her find a cheaper place like a basement or a studio which would be around 35-45% of
  • her income but she refused, she claims a studio is too small to fit her stuff and cat, and she refuses to live under a
  • household and be controlled and whatnot. She also said she didn't wanna do any roommate situation because she had bad experiences in
  • the past and she can't go back home because her family lives. about 3 hours from the city in the middle of nowhere.
  • Well she has the place and after making the first rent payment shes already complaining that she'll be most likely living paycheque
  • to paycheque because of this, and shes basically mad cause apparently "we should've just stayed living together and
  • tried to reconcile the relationship". Obviously this is fully her fault for choosing the
  • more expensive option right? I tried to help her and warn her and she didn't listen
  • late-nineteenth NTA she found out the hard way that she has unrealistic expectations of being able to afford the rent by herself. It's 100% a her
  • problem, not your problem. Especially since she said you should have tried to reconcile to make her life easier and more affordable.
  • Spiritual_Ad6547 NTA. This was her choice. You offered to help and she refused.
  • restrictedsquid You are not the a le. You warned her, you tried to tell her. Clearly she was right and you were wrong, and now she can live with her choices.
  • I'd cut the cord and let her figure that sh out. Y'all broke up. Not your monkeys or circus any more.
  • EnvironmentalSlice46 NTA why are you still talking to her?
  • i am snoof Oh no its the consequences of my actions. NTA send her a link to a google explanation of the word "accountability"
  • JonBirdmain NTA, there is a reason she is ex your

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