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Daily reminder, your boss doesn’t care about you, and your co-workers aren’t your friends.
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Decorating an entire office for someone’s birthday while that same someone is quietly denying your raise behind the scenes is basically throwing a surprise party for someone who’s currently drafting your layoff paperwork. Effort and gratitude don’t travel on the same train in most workplaces, one shows up on time and the other just never boards at all.
The equipment repairs, the business reviews, the cost savings, all the stuff that actually helped her bottom line, apparently gets filed under "expected" rather than "appreciated." That's the trick with small business owners who drive cars worth more than most people's yearly salary, generosity flows one direction, and it's always toward the person who already has plenty of it.
Micromanagement after burnout isn't an accident, it's a pattern. Bosses who forget your name but remember every task you didn't finish aren't confused, they're just telling you exactly where you rank, somewhere below the coffee machine but above the stapler.
The real lesson buried in all this isn't "don't be kind," it's "don't confuse a paycheck for a friendship." Coworkers and bosses aren't your college roommates, they're people you're contractually obligated to interact with for eight hours a day, and mistaking that for genuine connection is like assuming the gym trainer actually cares about your cardio goals instead of their commission.
Acting your wage isn't cynicism, it's just refusing to donate free labor to someone who wouldn't spot you a compliment if it fell out of the sky.
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