Dad Insists 16-Year-Old Community College Student Son Give Him His School Laptop So He Can Sell It: 'My Dad Has Been Unemployed Since He Was 35.'

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A teenage boy does homework on the laptop that his school gave him for having good grades.

Am I the bad guy for not giving a laptop I earned to my dad?

I, 16M, just got scolded and yelled at by my dad for being "selfish" for not giving my laptop to my dad.
I am currently a community college student (finished HS at 15) with good grades (3.95 gpa). The college offers a free laptop program, where students can keep their loaned laptop if they have good
academic standing after one year. It is a 2024 windows probook. Today, the college allowed me to keep the laptop forever since I had very good grades.
Just a few days ago, my dad bought me another laptop because he thinks the laptop from 2024 is too old, and wants to trade in the laptop after Im able to get it. After he learned that I was able to keep the laptop from the college, he wanted me to
give him it so that he can sell it for a few hundred bucks. He is obsessed with trade-ins and selling electronics. I said that I want to keep it because I think its not a bad idea to have 2 laptops. Also, because I
had this laptop for a while, I wanted to keep it and not sell it since I have a bit of emotional connection to it. I felt that I earned it fair and square.
My dad was not happy when I answered that. He then scolded me for being "selfish" and yelling how "nothing in the world is your's" pointing at how he "pays taxes for my school and thus should be entitled to it".
A community college that receives taxes from local residents to operate.
He also said that he is the reason I am able to exist and live like this, and how dare I keep this laptop to myself since someone else could be using it. I answered that I could keep it for longer before donating it, but my dad insisted that he sell it for
cash. I thought it was strange how he thinks he wants to help society but wants to profit from it the same time, which is ironic. He yelled me for at least 20 miniutes, all while I have a midterm tomorrow at college. I don't give a
about laptops and electronics, as long as it works just keep it. However, my dad believes that because of this, he feels that I am too entitled to everything, and called me
My mom tried to calm him down a bit but things like this happen once in a while for no reason. I am not obsessed with computers and I only want them to study and build my future, not for bs or selling.
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Gamer dad plays on his computer all day long instead of working.
from my grandparents on my mom's side. He pays like 10k in property tax a year (and thats basically all the taxes), far lower than what a w2 employee pays.
I, however, have been building independence for years, I went to school by myself and is a full time college student at just 16 years old. I rarely if ever accept or request gifts because I felt like I don't need them.
So yeah, AITA? edit: my dad does not want the new laptop back, he only wants the old one since he is obsessed with trade ins.
ironchef8000 He's right about one thing. He sure is "entitled." NTA
Ok Bet6479 OP I think so too, how low do you have to be to do this to your focking son who worked this hard. If I was a dad seeing a son like this would make be so proud
dough_eating_squid NTA Keep the college laptop and give him the one he bought you back. Start making a plan to get out, whether that is living with a friend or relative, or getting a job and getting your own place. Living with a parent who holds it over your head that they paid for things required to care for you isn't going to be worth it for your mental health in the long run.
Ok_Bet6479 OP HE DOES not want the new laptop back, he ONLY wants the old one because he is obsessed with trade ins. He isn't short on money or whatever. I literally tried to give it to him and he dosen't want the new one. the only reason he gave me one is because he heas an unhealthy obsession with trade ins

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