Scared Camgirl's Viral Story About Being Followed Challenges Men To Think Outside Themselves

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Aug 4, 2019 1:00 AM EDT

This frightened woman's story about being followed ended up going viral, and serving as a powerful explanation for why women can be so "cold" and "standoffish" while out in public. It effectively challenges the dudes out there to think outside themselves, and consider how much weight their actions can carry to women, while they're out and about. 

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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans Follow @LilyEvansMFC Why some women are "rude" or "cold" or "standoffish" to men in public: a thread
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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans @LilyEvansMFC Follow I was walking my dog today and stopped to take a photo of the sunset. A man on a bench behind me was having a snack and he offered Echo a cracker, which she gladly took, because she's a dog and always wants the people foods.
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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans @LilyEvansMFC Follow It started innocently enough. He asked my dog's name, and then mine. I asked for his and we shook hands. I hate making small talk but, well, he had been very nice to offer my dog a treat, so l mentioned the nice weather. He asked if I lived in the area.
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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans Follow @LilyEvansMFC Now, as a woman, I don't like that question. First of all, I'm walking my dog, so it's already pretty clear that I probably live fairly close by. But I answered yes, made an excuse about Echo needing her medication, and dragged her away. All in all, not the worst interaction
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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans @LilyEvansMFC Follow About 200 yards away, I paused to let Echo sniff some stuff and text a friend. "Hey, I thought you were going home?" Oh, boy. He'd followed me. I smiled and said I was just texting a friend back, but was on my way home, which was true-- but more explanation than I owed a stranger
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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans @LilyEvansMFC Follow He asked me where I lived. This made me uncomfortable, so I lied and said I live a neighborhood over. He said he'd seen me around often, which made me uncomfortable because I'd never seen him before but I guess he has been watching me.
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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans @LilyEvansMFC Follow He asked if I have family around. I said no. And then he asked me if I live alone. So now a strange man, over 6 feet tall, probably in the 220-260 pound range, has been watching me, following me has a rough idea of where I live...
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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans @LilyEvansMFC Follow and now he knows that I have no family in the area to check in on me. And now he wants to know if I live by myself Alarm bells are ringing in my head and luckily this time can tell the truth-- I do not live alone, I have a former military male room mate. But I'm still scared.
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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans @LilyEvansMFC Follow I start tugging the leash to get across the street and he asks for a hug. Before I can say no he wraps his arms around me and squeezes me, tightly, and doesn't let go for a good 10-15 seconds. I was terrified he would squeeze tighter because I knew he could hurt me if he wanted.
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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans @LilyEvansMFC Follow Finally he let me go and I dashed across the street with my dog, even though the crosswalk timer was nearly up. All wanted was to get home ASAP. But I couldn't even do that. What if he followed me again? What if he saw where I lived?
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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans @LilyEvansMFC Follow I had to take an alternate route home, in the dark, constantly checking behind me to make sure I wasn't being followed, constantly making sure I was surrounded by plenty of people so l wouldn't be alone in the dark, constantly staying on the best lit streets.
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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans @LilyEvansMFC Follow So now I need to plan a new dog walking route, and I have to be even more wary than usual after dark (which comes at like 4:45 now, thanks winter.) All because I decided to be nice to a strange man. I gave him an inch and he took a mile.
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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans @LilyEvansMFC Follow I've experienced this over and over and OVER, and yet I STILL try to give people the benefit of the doubt because I don't want to get called a bitch. I don't owe anyone ANYTHING. Not a smile, not a hello, not a hug. And I'm going to remember that.
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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans @LilyEvansMFC Follow This man didn't look scary, or creepy, or weird. Our interaction started perfectly pleasantly. So next time a woman on the street comes off as "rude", remember that we have NO IDEA which men are going to follow us home, or touch us without our consent, or worse
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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans @LilyEvansMFC Follow Oh, and on my way home, another man stopped me and told me I had better "watch my figure". I assume this is because HE wanted to watch my figure.
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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans @LilyEvansMFC Follow So yeah. I'm at home shaking now, hoping that man didn't follow me home. Hoping he doesn't really see me around a lot, hoping he doesn't know where I really live. And hoping that I can make ONE person understand how dangerous "just being nice" to strangers can be
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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans Follow @LilyEvansMFC And for thos eof you saying "wow he's creepy": you're correct! He IS creepy! And I had NO WAY OF KNOWING whether he would be creepy or harmless until it was too late!
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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans @LilyEvansMFC Follow And for those of you telling me to "stay safe" and protect myself: being "rude" IS a way of staying safe and protecting myself. When a woman you do not know brushes you off, won't say hello back or thank you for your compliment or whatever, THIS IS WHY. SHE IS PROTECTING HERSELF
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    creepy encounter - Text - Lily Evans @LilyEvansMFC Follow So next time you wanna get butthurt about it, try and consider WHY she might be acting that way. Consider that if she is nice to a man who later turns creepy people will tell her she should have been more careful.
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