Every romantic relationship is put to the test when conflict inevitably arises. There's nothing inherently wrong with conflict—but the relationship can quickly fall apart if healthy communication, trust, and boundaries are lacking.
One redditor asked couples counselors to share their experiences with toxic relationships that were beyond help. We've collected some of the most interesting responses from both therapists and former patients who talk about all the common red flags that point to a relationship's failure.
This therapist said that seeking therapy for different reasons (one person is unsure, the other wants to stay together) is a pretty bad sign.
If the couples are doing something immature, such as "retaliatory" cheatings, chances are the relationship will be kicking the bucket at some point.
If you're looking for validation from the therapist, you're absolutely doing it wrong.
"There are worse options than divorce" is definitely a statement for couples to remember.
It's good to become familiar with Dr. John Gottman's 4 horsemen predictors of divorce: Contempt, stonewalling, criticism, and defensiveness.