Most Common Mistakes People Make In Relationships

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    Handwriting - noah9389 · 3h The most common mistakes that couples make are not actively listening to one another, taking their partner for granted, and pushing aside problems because they don't want to cause an argument. G Reply 1 437 ...
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    Organism - MaizeNBlueWaffle • 4h I think having deal breakers in relationships is obviously good to set your standards, but I know so many people who have the most petty and dumb deal breakers that just result in them never willing to compromise or be satisfied. It's 100% okay to not have the same hobbies or be the exact same person. Variety is the spice of life G Reply 1 167 ...
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    Font - Sweet_Tune • 5h "Things fall apart if you don't look after them" - Professor Langdon in Inferno It's easy to get so comfortable in a relationship that you take it (or the other person) for granted. G Reply 1 334 3 ...
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    Font - blankblotter •6h 1 Award Labeling your partner the source of all your happiness and joy G Reply 1 503 ...
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    Font - TheUnblinkingEye1001 · 2h Assuming your partner should know what you want if they love you. I struggled early in our marriage because the women in my wife's family are big on this. We worked on it and it took a bit, but we got to the point where we would only hold each other accountable to expressed words and thoughts. It has made all the difference in the world and 27 years of marriage have been mostly happy. Also, comparisons. Never say "Well my last SO did this" or " My family always d
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    Font - backwoodshippy • 4h Trying too hard to avoid potential arguments to avoid conflict rather than hashing it out before the issue becomes too big to handle. G Reply 1 7 ...
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    Font - sweetsubmarines · 3h Not being able to communicate. You need to be able to voice when you are hurt without them taking it as an attack. You need to be able to hear your partner. G Reply 8 ... +
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    Font - AustinR4 · 3h Seeing your partner too much or too little, neglecting their friends in a relationship, having poor communication. GReply 4 17 3
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    Font - BennyBiBoy • 6h 1 Award Lack of communication on both sides.
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    Font - DarkPasta • 5h 1. You need attraction. 2. you need trust. 3. communicate. communicate. communicate. 4. the other person is flawed, just like you. Accept that. 5. Be a decent human, don't lie and cheat. There, done. Enjoy. G Reply 70 ...
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    Rectangle - Hefty_Wedding_1212 • 3h Having trust issues G Reply ... LO
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    Font - AnAverageFreak · 2h Treating dating as a game you're supposed to win instead of playing just for fun of it. 6 Reply ...
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    Font - Apprehensive_Cap1691 • 3h Taking your partner for granted is a big one G Reply 15 ...
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    Rectangle - a_prime98 · 3h "I'm fine" believes her "Why did you believe me?!" G Reply 1 2 3 + ...
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    Font - sharrrper · 55m Keeping score. "I did the dishes three times two weeks ago, you only did them once last week." "You got a new video game this month, why didn't I get something?" Etc It's never going to be completely even, things ebb and flow. Both side should feel like they're getting a fair shake overall but if you keep track of every little thing (even if it's just in your head, I don't necessarily mean like an actual list) it's just going to guarantee that somebody is always "losing".
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    Smile - Slytherin77777 • 2h Co-dependency. You have to be comfortable with yourself and you need your own interests, goals, and desires separate from your partner. Invest in yourself first! G Reply 1 Vote ...
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    Font - lewisjake2777 • 1h Not being able to do things on your own. You don't have to do everything together or be in constant communication (via texting or something). Reply Vote ...
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    Smile - JoeFortitude · 1h Lack of forthright honesty in order to avoid arguments/ tough conversations. A little acute pain now is worth more than chronic resentment in the future. 6 Reply Vote •..

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