Wife Yells At Husband For Eating Her Food

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mattstaff
May 30, 2021 1:00 PM EDT

Anyone who signs up for marriage dives into the experience knowing that it'll likely come with its fair share of meltdowns over the pettiest of matters. You spend enough time with anyone, anyone at all, and you're bound to start having an issue or two with them over something. In this case, the wife was completely fed up with her husband because he kept eating her food. She's wondering whether or not she was in the wrong for calling him out like she did. 

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    Font - 1 2 11 e 3 18 48 AITA for yelling at my husband to stop eating my food Not the A-hole I'll keep this pretty cut and dry. I have a lot of food allergies; gluten intolerance, IBS, lactose intolerance, I'm allergic to spinach and kale and other leafy greens in that family. I buy special food for myself as well as regular food for my husband who does not have any allergies or food intolerances.
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    Font - For some reason, my husband likes to eat my snacks as well as his own. Instead of going to get a new loaf of bread, he'll open my gluten free bread and eat all of it. It's been an issue our whole relationship. He says it's because he wants to use all the food before we go grocery shopping again so nothing goes to waste Now, I'm 13 weeks pregnant and the amount of things I can eat are even less. Pretty much the only things I can keep down are these very specific gluten free crackers that a
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    Font - When I asked him why he decided to eat pretty much the only thing I can keep down, he said he just grabbed some crackers, and he didn't see the big deal and that I was over reacting by being upset. He said he knows my pregnancy hormones are out of whack but I needed to control myself. That made me angry and I told him he needed to stop eating my food and making me feel bad for being upset or he wouldn't have a wife anymore. He got really offended and hasn't spoken to me since, and I feel
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    Font - He gets annoyed if I only buy things I can eat. He asks why he has to eat my diet when it's not him that has problems My pregnancy was an accident. I guess my birth control failed or something else happened. It wasn't planned because we were working through issues and I didn't want to bring a baby into the world during a pandemic. Please stop telling me I was stupid for having a baby with him or to have an abortion. I can't get an abortion even if I wanted to. I'm simply asking for judgem
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    Font - lilaccomma • 2d 1 Award NTA He said my pregnancy hormones are out of whack but I needed to control myself He's dismissing your perfectly valid concerns by blaming it on your hormones?! You weren't overreacting at all, you literally just asked him why he ate the only food you could eat. That's perfectly reasonable and it was the dismissal of your feelings that made you angry- again, which is perfectly understandable. Also it's crazy that he hasn't spoken to you since, that is not a good wa
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    Smile - SettingNice8853 · 2d · Partassipant [2] Nta and he is being a child. Looks like you are going to be raising 2, not 1. Why not buy exclusively stuff for your diet? That way you eat the same thing. GReply 4 1.9k ...
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    Font - 3 1 Award He said he knows my pregnancy hormones are out of whack but I needed to control myself. Wasn't he the one that couldn't control himself enough to find a different snack? Seriously, which ones got the impulse control issues? NTA... So so so NTA. G Reply 1 938 ...
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    Font - [deleted] • 2d 3 1 Award NTA and you know you're not. G Reply 1.2k ...
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    Font - scarletoharawasnot · 2d 1 Award NTA. Eat him instead G Reply 218 ...
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    Font - NTA God this drives me wild. I'll often low carb as I have an enormous appetite and struggle tontrol my weight otherwise. I'll have 2-3 things in the house I can eat and loads of stuff that my wife can eat. Then I come and find her eating my stuff.. There are literally 20+ snack items she could have chosen G Reply 1 34 3 ...
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    Font - macaroni_rascal42 · 2d · Partassipant [1] NTA. Buy all gluten free things and if he complains tell him to go shopping for himself because when you buy for the both of you he doesn't respect your boundaries and the things that are keeping you and the child you are growing happy and healthy. This is a giant red flag and makes me worried for you post birth of the baby. Please have a clear talk with him about his immaturity and lack of respect for you and your health. He should know this. Him
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    Font - NTA. It's such a small thing to do to be considerate of you while you are pregnant and he keeps doing it over and over. I wouldn't cave on this argument. I don't think you overreacted. Low level disrespect and ignoring of reasonable requests gets really frustrating over time. G Reply 1 70 ...
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    Organism - NTA but your husband is. You already have such a limited diet and are pregnant! This is some weird psychological issue with him. Because a normal person would apologize and get your more crackers. Seriously He needs to get his selfishness in check before the baby is born because how else will it manifest. Will he eat the kids food if the kid has allergies? Reply 108 •..
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