Bride Refuses To Use Flower Girl Dress Mother-In-Law Bought

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May 21, 2021 12:00 PM EDT

When there's a wedding around the corner in your life, you can pretty much safely assume that drama's about to break out. It could be (terribly so) your actual partner, or maybe it'll end up being the mother-in-law putting on a show that's worthy of being deemed a full-fledged bridezilla. You never know. 

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    Font - AITA for turning into a 'bridezilla' at my fiancé and MIL over the dress my daughter will wear to our wedding. Not the A-hole I'm Getting married in September, it's been postponed twice already because of Covid. Friction has developed between myself and MIL over wedding plans. SO used to complain about how controlling/ overbearing she is, but has now sided with her We were getting married last year but had to cancel because of lockdown (we're from UK). it was a small wedding in Italy. Jus
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    Font - Over a year that version of the wedding was cancelled a 2nd time, MIL moved down the road & I got pregnant. Since MIL moved she's been hell. I had the baby prematurely in Dec. She is fine but while still in hospital MIL told me all the things l'd done 'wrong' during the pregnancy that caused the premature birth. She visits all the time unannounced, Thave begged her to at least call ahead and does things with baby I ask her not to but she knows best. Also told us she was glad our wedding h
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    Font - The one thing I was adamant on was that I was making my wedding dress and baby's dress. I used to be a bespoke wedding dress designer, so it's an area l'm pretty talented in. I've already made my own dress & designed baby's, mocked it up but waiting closer to the time to physically make it so the size is right. It's been very clear this was the plan so when MIL came to us gushing about the dress she just got baby to wear for wedding, I was livid. I said take it back, I'm making the dress.
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    Font - After He shouted at me for treating his mum like that and told me how I was turning into a bridezilla. I asked for him to support me on this 1 thing as I was giving up everything else. He said that I haven't even made the dress so what does it matter if she wears something else. I asked him to tell me the truth on if he even wanted this wedding as it was a hell of a lot of money to just throw at a party we were both going to hate. He couldn't give me a straight answer. AITA 3.1k 344 ↑, Sh
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    Font - FlashyCelery2275 · 23h I think by not giving you an answer, he just gave you an answer. Imo I would cancel the wedding and either go to couples counseling or end the relationship. Being married to a man who is already married to his mother sounds exhausting. NTA. G Reply 4 329 3 + ...
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    Rectangle - 1 Award NTA. Think about whether you really want to marry a man that is already married to his mother? Seriously though, this is a little sneak peek into your future. You still have time. G Reply 6.9k ...
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    Font - Express_Anything_279 · 21h 14 Awards NTA Here is what you do: 1. You tell your SO that he either marries you or his mother, no discussion 2. The wedding will go down the way you guys want to, not MIL and she will have ZERO input. 3. Your MIL will NEVER visit you again without consent from you. That is it, if he says anything, that is your sign to leave and get child support. 6 Reply 1 1.9k 3 ...
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    Font - Zealousideal_Sea_474 · 23h 1 Award NTA Your fiance is a groomzilla tho. Y'all should sit down and have a talk. Do both of you want this wedding? Do you want any wedding? Do you even want this relationship anymore? Etc. G Reply 4 676 3 ...
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    Font - NTA but reconsider marrying this guy before its too late. He and his mom deserve each other, you deserve better G Reply 4 1.3k 3 ...
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    Font - tangerine-trees- · 23h Partassipant [1] NTA but honey, you should think long and hard about marrying him. He has shown you now time and time again that he will choose his overbearing, controlling mother over you. Is that really something you can handle for the rest of your life? G Reply 4 115 3 ...
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    Font - He's letting his mother walk all over you. Say hello to a preview of your marriage. NTA. G Reply 350 ...
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    Font - NTA. Shame you've been tethered to them via your child, but it's not too late to escape. This is a preview of the rest of your life. G Reply 4 75 3 ...
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    Font - Alarming_Panic2419 · 20h What is happening now is going to happen in the future. He's still breastfeeding, be careful you don't sign up for a lifetime of that crap. G Reply 4 12 3 ...
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    Font - WhiskyEchoTango • 17h RUN. Take the baby and RUN. This family you shouldn't be marrying is a toxic disaster. G Reply ...
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    Font - CantaloupeHot5545 · 19h Partassipant [1] NTA-keep the dress. Ditch the mama's boy. G Reply ...
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    Font - rachellyn0205 · 20h NTA and this isn't a good start to a marriage. G Reply ...
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