Man Falls In Love While In Military, Gets Married, Wife Cheats, Revenge Ensues

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    Font - r/ProRevenge + Join u/That-Bend-1601 • 8h 3 1 4 My wife cheated and lost Gonna preface this by stating that this happened 3 years ago. This isn't a throwaway account but fake names will be used. Let's start with the frame of this story. I (27M) grew up like most guys under the assumption that the one is out there. That if you play your cards right your soulmate will magically appear and you'll ride off in the sunset. When I was 19 I met a woman. Let's call her Bri. I met Bri through mutua
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    Font - After roughly 3 weeks of talking to Bri she hit me with a very strange question. "If I was pregnant what would you do?" Now before I get to my answer let's do the math here. She was in her party years and slept around frequently. (I found that out way later in the relationship) She had a boyfriend a month before meeting me. I was adopted so accepting a kid as my own seemed like a no brainer. My answer was what seemed like the "right thing". "I will love that child as if it were my own". W
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    Font - and when she decided to fly out to me. During this gap she was very flaky trying to see if she could get who she thought was the dad to commit and help her take care of the kid. He never budged. She chose me instead. Yes I understand now why staying with her was a bad idea. I was dumb, in love, and I believed she was the one and that she'd come around eventually. I married her so that the army would cover the birth and the rest should have been history. But we all know it wasn't.
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    Font - Year two. Two years in I noticed something a bit strange. Some guy, we'll call him Ron, was liking every post she put out and commenting on every photo that had the daughter in it. Hmmmm this seems odd. At this point in our marriage I had gotten out of the military and was working a job in security. One night while working my lizard brain connected the dots and the gut feeling followed. Now l'm not one to act on just suspicion, I need proof. Given that I was working a nightclub that night
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    Font - Now I said "if" but I knew better. It would be "when". This is when I set my plan in motion. I dropped out of college to get a job in my field and made sure anything that was opened up under credit was under her name. I began stating that back where I'm from has a better economy and that we'd be better off there. It took two years of convincing but it worked. Nothing was under my name and we were set to go to my home town in 6 months. We got there in May and I sent her home to visit next
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    Font - distant. Now I spent two years setting the dominoes up, I just let her knock them over. I made sure I was jobless, had nothing to my name, and was home where I could fall back on family. I pressured her into admitting that she cheated and the dominoes tumbled. I cut all funds that were being sent to the account, drained the account to file for divorce. I had nothing so she couldn't take half. I had no job so what lifestyle did we have that would require giving her alimony? Everything was
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    Font - I am now extremely successful and valued in my career. I'm not interested in marriage but I have no shortage of women in my life. Life is good. I still have contact with the daughter and Bri often flirts with me trying to get me back. I'm the only dad the kid has known and have no intentions of becoming an ex-dad. Even though getting back with her is emotionally tempting to be with the kid more I know better and I have better options. TLDR cheaters always get caught and always get what's
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    Font - The kid is supported above and beyond despite no legal requirement to do more than just the minimum. Clothes, shoes, bed, games, toys, hobbies. I pay for it all. The kid is very much involved in my life and she is provided for. I drop everything to talk to her and I get involved in what she loves. I don't get to see her much but there's very little that she longs for except living with me. The kid is mine regardless of genetics. I made that investment in her life from the start and I'm st

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