Woman's Estranged Brother Decides To Get Married On Her Wedding Day, She Refuses To Move Wedding

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Oct 9, 2021 9:00 PM EDT

The wedding drama is endless. This time around we have quite the circus act. It sounds like this woman's estranged brother came out of the woodwork, and decided to get married on the same day that she planned to tie the knot. When she refused to change her wedding date, her family pitched a bit of a fit. So, she decided to consult the moral judges of Reddit's AITA community to see whether or not she was in the wrong for not changing her wedding. You might be able to imagine what people had to say about the whole thing. Check out some more wedding drama with this AskReddit thread about the worst wedding foods that people have ever seen.

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    Rectangle - 1 1 33 31 S 34 87 AITA for refusing to move my wedding date because my brother's getting married the same day? Not the A-hole My family are hardcore Christians and my brother Ross and I had always been on bad terms. It extended to our adulthood and I stooped talking to him after he mistreated my fiance Adam and I uninvited him to our wedding.
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    Font - Adam and I got engaged in 2019. We set a date for our wedding which's on Oct 9. Tim announced his girlfriend was pregnant days ago and our parents went crazy and demanded they get married next month. Tim agreed under the condition that he choose which day the wedding will be. My parents agreed even though they're funding the entire thing. I got a call from my uncle saying Tim is getting married on Oct 9. I was shocked because this date is my wedding date. I knew he did it deliberately aft
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    Font - I found most my family there including Tim and his girlfriend. I brought up the date and asked who chose it. Tim's girlfriend lied saying my parents did but my dad pointed saying Tim did. I asked Tim why he chose the date to be the exact same date as my wedding. he made a face and said to him this is a free day since he never planned on attending my wedding so he thought that date fits. I explained I worked for 2 years to be able to afford inviting and including everyone and that I chose
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    Font - I pointed out that Tim chose this date to spite me and to divid the family and suggested they change his wedding date since they are having it at their house and paying for everything. Mom said she can't since they wanted the wedding on Oct and Tim and his girlfriend find it fair to choose the day. Tim said I should quit making this a competition of who gets married first but I said this wasn't the case and I just wanted all my family at my wedding. Mom said "if you want the whole family
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    Font - 1 Award I'm really sorry. You have lost some of your family. The only way I see to maintain dignity is to carry on. People who cancel or choose your brother's wedding instead need to understand you will think differently and poorly of them, and I would go LC/NC as you deem fit. Whatever their reasons, who know what they think of you. Can I also just add that their logic is totally bogus. "Hardcore Christians" aside, they've already done the thing they were meant to wait with. Getting marr
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    Rectangle - RedditDK2 · 3d Colo-rectal Surgeon [49] NTA - and l'm sorry. Keep your date. I would make it clear that this will be the last invitation to anything your family will get if they decide not to attend. G Reply 4 794 3 ...
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    Rectangle - NannyRo · 3d NTA. I would demand everyone confirms which wedding they are attending by the end of the weekend. Adjust your numbers accordingly and enjoy your wonderful day on October 9th. Ultimately it's about you and Adam only. G Reply 1 3.4k 3 ...
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    Font - NOK1KO · 3d NTA You paid for your wedding and they pay for his and they expect you to move the wedding and loose a lot of money in the process. I would just tell them the wedding is on that day and if you are not there then you they choose your childish brother over you than they do not deserve to be in your and your partner and possible children's life anymore. As I am sure Adam will also feel somewhat this way if he is This will also filter out your real family, the ones that come to yo
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    Font - NefariousnessGlum424 · 3d Certified Proctologist [25] 7 Awards NTA. I'd suggest fighting fire with fire. Spread the good word before the wedding about the growing family. Bet your religious family will be so happy to attend their wedding after knowing it's a shotgun wedding. G Reply 1 10.7k 3 ...
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    Rectangle - unknown_928121 · 3d There are 4 other weekends in October, though Halloween would be more appropriate based off their personality. NTA, but everyone's showing you their true colors here, you may want them at your nuptials but it's nowhere close to the radar for them G Reply 83 3 +
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    Font - -JBez · 3d Partassipant [2] NTA - not even in the slightest
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    Rectangle - Kris82868 · 3d Professor Emeritass [71] NTA. Holy F%%% the favoritism is outrageous. G Reply 1 283 3
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    Rectangle - Legitimate_Drive_693 · 3d NTA- I would do it without them. They showed how they value you. G Reply 4 44 3 ...
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    Rectangle - Elfich47 · 3d Colo-rectal Surgeon [49] NTA - Well we can see who the golden child and the scape of the family are. G Reply 1 43 3 ...
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    Rectangle - Unit-Healthy • 3d Colo-rectal Surgeon [46] Nta. Keep your date. They can attend or not. G Reply 4 34 3 ...
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