Entitled Mom Demands Sis Take Her Kids To Disney Despite Knowing It's A Secret Proposal Trip

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    Font - r/entitledparents + Join u/throwingstars03r5 · 6h 1 1 Entitled sister demands I take her children to Disney with me and my girlfriend despite knowing it's a secret proposal trip. S So l originally posted this on AITA and few people there said it would fit in well here so I thought i'd share it for you all to see.
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    Font - So I (31F) and my Girlfriend (32F) are planning a trip to Disneyland Paris (Not for anytime soon with the pandemic but still planning), it's not as big as say Florida but it's closer to us, it's also both our first time going, and as my Girlfriend is obsessed with Disney it's where i'm planning to propose to her to make it more special.
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    Font - My sister knows i'm proposing as she helped me pick out the Ring and she was very supportive until she found out where I was planning to propose, she doesn't approve of it as we're not kids and has stated that as we're not Children it's "weird" and how if I wanted to go there I should take her kids who are 10 and 6, I love my Niece and Nephew but this is a special trip for me and my Girlfriend.
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    Font - I explained this to my Sister and I thought she understood, but next time I was over seeing her kids they were upset as she had told them about the Disney trip and they couldn't understand why I wouldn't take them, I tried to console them but I felt very put on the spot and upset by this, I ended up leaving not long after and my Sister keeps badgering me to take the kids now as they're so upset. The Worst part is my Girlfriend is starting to feel guilty and wondering if we should just tak
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    Font - LilRedheadStepSheep · 5h DO NOT TAKE THE CHILDREN. Tel your selfish, manipulative sister that if she wants her kids to go, she can bloody well take them herself. Don't fall victim to the guilt. Don't let your GF. Tell your GF you want a romantic trip for the two of you, not babysitting duty you'd have to PAY for. Your sister's being a right b h. G Reply 102
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    Font - HellcatPaz• 6h 1 Award Your sister put you on the spot so do the same to her next time you see the kids. When they say how sad they are they can't join you "I know you're sad kids, that's why your mum said she's going to take you guys to Disney herself, a family trip for the 3 of you. Isn't that exciting?" She'll lose her t at you but hey, she clearly has the money to send them to Disney so she can take them herself - and if she doesn't have the money too bad because you don't have the mo
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    Font - surreal-sea · 6h Your sister upset her own children, NOT you. That is pure emotional manipulation. She knew you didn't want to take them and the reason why, yet she still told her kids and continues to try and make you take them. Ignore them, they will get over it, maybe take them on a nice day out to a theme park at some point, they will be just as happy. 5 Reply 1 453 +
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    Font - liss_meliss · 5h Tell your sister she's the one who upset the kids but telling them about your trip with expectations that they are going with. Ummm... It's supposed to be a romantic trip for you and your GF, not a free vacation for her and her kids. She gets a free babysitter if you take them. You don't get squat, except for a buttload more responsibilities in this situation. You don't even really get to have a romantic dinner with her if that's the case. How does she not see this? The l
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    Rectangle - FramedMugshot · 6h Stay strong. Your sister is trying to manipulate you and her future demands will only escalate on the future if you give in now. G Reply 1 1k 3 +

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