Jerk BF Eats All Of GF's Snacks, She Buys Lockable Box To Secure Food, BF Unreasonably Dismissive

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    Font - AITA for putting all my snacks in the fridge in a lockable box? Not the A-hole So I live with my boyfriend and he finishes work earlier than me so he is always home first, Until I get home and we can make dinner it's not unusual for him to snack, this wouldn't be an issue if he ate his own snacks or didn't eat all of mine, but often when I come home I find all my snacks that I love are finished and l don't buy many of them either.
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    Font - At first I talked to him nicely about this telling him next time could he leave some and not eat everything, but when he was dismissive it led to an argument where things got a bit heated on both sides i'm ashamed to admit and he finally told me it was only snacks and he'd eat whatever he pleased in the fridge
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    Font - Finally annoyed by this I bought a small lockable box and put it in the fridge it is now where I store my snacks to ensure I can at least get some of them, He was annoyed and angry at this saying I was being dramatic and it was just snacks, I was happy to share them but he wouldn't even leave me any so I made sure I got all. Perhaps it was petty to lock them up where he can't access but trying to talk to him failed, AITA? 8k 5 942 1, Share Award
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    Font - shadow-foxe · 19h Pooperintendant [55] 2 Awards NTA - he literally told you that he wont respect your boundaries and cares little for your happiness. This isnt a long term keeper. Ditch him.and free your snacks. G Reply 1 3.8k lovingrosethorn OP · 18h Oh my god Free your snacks mad me buckle, have an upvote 6 1 1.9k 3 + ...
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    Font - disney_nerd_mom · 19h Partassipant [1] NTA. He's extremely rude for eating all your snacks and continuing to do so after you asked him not to and then being dismissive of your request. Is he line this in other aspects of your relationship? 6 Reply 1 1.8k lovingrosethorn OP · 19h Yes and no, he's all in all a great boyfriend from an overview but he thinks I get hung up on silly things that don't matter 631 3
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    Font - time-machine123 · 15h I hate it when I guys say I'm making a big deal out of something, like no sir..it's becoming a big deal because you didn't listen to me when I clearly communicated haha 6 4 237 + ...
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    Font - Fionsomnia · 19h Partassipant [1] 4 Awards Lol. So he told you it's not a big deal if you don't get to eat any snacks, and now he's making a big deal out of not being able to eat the snacks himself? NTA. 6 Reply 1 15.2k 3
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    Rectangle - TiniestGhost · 18h Certified Proctologist [20] 1 Award What horrible ailment has befallen your BF that makes it impossible for him to get his own snacks? NTA 6 Reply 1 1.6k 3 +
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    Font - ohsogreen · 18h Partassipant [3] O 1 Award NTA For me this sort of thing is a deal-breaker. Not because l'm so fond of snacks but because it's a symptom of a larger problem-lack of respect and ignoring boundaries and simple common courtesy. If someone can't honor a reasonable request to keep their paws off your stuff, how are they going to react to the larger issues? He's telling you what is important to you (even in a small way) is of zero importance to him. People tell you who they are.
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    Font - ButteryBisquit · 19h Certified Proctologist [26] This is a surefire sign that you've got way bigger problems then who's eating all the snacks OP. I guarantee this is just the tip of the iceberg. NTA 5 Reply 1 659 ...
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    Font - _Cant_Recall · 15h O 1 Award The problem in this relationship isn't the snacks. It's the lack of respect for OPs feelings by completely dismissing their legitimate request. And also the hypocrisy. NTA 6 1 218

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