Men Reveal How They Would Feel If Their Significant Other Wanted To Explore Polyamory

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    Human body - r/AskMen. Posted by u/themodernkatipunero_ 23 hours ago What's your take on polyamory if your significant other wants to explore it?
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    Font - ChaoticGonzo 23 hr. ago I am for it, I did it. In my experience it was going well until I had more/better options than her. Apparently I'm not supposed to be able to do that and I missed that memo
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    Font - sethworld 1 day ago I'd rather not wrestle with the green monster. Historically, I lose.
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    Font - Ok-Gate-9610 1 day ago Hard pass. I dont need anything else. I am old enough to know when im happy and content and i dont need to 'find myself' or 'explore new things' If my oaetner felt they needed to then theyre not in the same place as me mentally so they can go do that but theyll be doing it without me
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    Font - Duffles BNA 1 day ago Bane Your partner is down for it until you find a solid 9 that gives a shit about you. Honestly doesn't matter men or woman but the person that brought it up probably found something better, wants to bang it and thinks their partner can't or won't find something. Also wants the security of the partner being available if it doesn't work out. Way too much to go wrong.
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    Font - Billy_of_the_hills 21 hr. ago That isn't what having a significant other means to me.
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    Human body - jackwritespecs - 23 hr. ago Maybe breakup? Im not into it personally and I don't really want to be with someone who is
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    Rectangle - dukeknight 23 hr. ago If my partner suggested polyamory, that would mark the end of the relationship.
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    Human body - muddfrog82 - 22 hr. ago No thank you. I dont share well with others in that way.
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    Font - meseeksordie 22 hr. ago Probably going to be a hard no. Like others in the comments it's hard enough handling one sexual relationship. Plus we have kids. They're both old enough to understand what's going on. Pretty sure they wouldn't like other people around knowing that's happening.
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    Font - Old_Man_Shogoth. 23 hr. ago Male I am open to hearing them out on the topic. But polyamory is not something I am interested in exploring. I find navigating a sexual and romantic relationship with one person more than hard enough without having to account for additional people's involvement.
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    Font - full_of_ghosts 23 hr. ago Ⓒ Male She's an adult and can make her own decisions about going poly, but I'm under no obligation to stay with her if she does. Relationship ends, we both move on, and that's that. Yes, it would hurt, and I'd have to mourn it. But I've survived breakups before, and I'd survive this one too.

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