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Wholesome & Funny Reactions Parents Had When They Found Out Their Kid Was Gay

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    Font - My_2_Centz. 4d So my aunt is kind of old school and doesn't know how to address things. She is kind of in the middle between baby boomer and Gen X so she is a bit more tolerant, but she is still awkward. My aunt has 3 boys and they are all gay lol. The youngest one was like 9 or something when he told her and he goes "Mom, I think I'm gay" and she looks at him dead in the eyes and says "So? what the fuck you want me to do about it!?" Lol She's fully supportive and tried to be nonchalant b
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    Font - Difficult Accident9. 4d 4 Awards In the 90s, when my girlfriend finally told her traditional Italian mom and grandma at 19, they sighed in unison and grandma said, "oh thank baby Jesus, I was worried that I was going to have to tell you." ... Reply 32.9k

    "Sit down lady, we gotta talk. I have to tell you something and I really hope that it doesn't change anything between us, you're my granddaughter after all. So... Uhm... Didn't think it would be that hard... But... Sarah. You're gay." said u/lil_sh_t.

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    Font - LongjumpingCake1924 . 4d "I thought you were about to give me bad news! Don't scare me like that!" - My granny when my uncle came out (in the '70's!). She was decades ahead of her time... ... Reply 16.6k

    "This was my literal response when my brother came out to me. He'd called me and said he had something urgent to tell me and it had to be face to face. I was a bus journey away and started to panic so I made him tell me over the phone. 'I'm gay.' 'I know that! I thought someone had DIED'" said u/Suspicious-Brain-521.

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    Font - narnababy 4d ● 1 Award "So that's why you don't like mushrooms". At least that's what my friends dad said to him when he came out. We still don't know what he meant by that. ... Reply 26.6k

    "Can confirm. I'm gay and don't like mushrooms. It tracks." said u/narnababy.

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    Font - ODiamond0 . 4d One of my friends from high school was gay, and when he came out to his family his Dad literally didn't look up from his newspaper & told him his sister didn't need to tell him she was straight so why would he need to explain that he was gay? He's known him his whole life and already knew that. It was cute because he was so worried ... Reply 17.4k

    "I had a friend who came out to me and asked me to be around when he told his mom. She was awesome idk why he wanted me there. So he walks into her office and I'm outside the door, he is obviously nervous and fidgeting. She looks up and goes, 'Oh good, you're out of the closet.' Gave him a quick hug and told him to go buy something she needed for dinner." said u/co_snarf.

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    Font - OneMorePotion • 4d 2 Awards Well... My dad said "I know... And I don't care. As long as you are happy, I'm also happy for you." and then asked me if I wanted a beer or scotch to celebrate that I finally had the confidence to tell him. Reply 14.2k

    "That's better than a buddy of mine from college. His dad was one of those manly men, fire fighter, did wood working in his spare time type guys. My friend wanted support when he came out to his dad, so I went with him. He told his dad that he was gay, and his dad just said, 'No shit. You've been gay since you were 14.' He then looked at me and asked if I was his sons boyfriend. My friend replied 'no, just my friend,' and his dad said, 'Good. You can do better.' Fucking brutal. My buddy then told his dad that he loved him, and his dad grunted, which is manly man talk for I love you too, and then he grilled us cheeseburgers." said u/Aromatic_Location.

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    Font - Winterpegs 4d ● 2 Awards When I came out to my dad when I was 16 I thought he would disown me. He said: "Son, If anyone ever hurts you for that, I'll fucking kill them". In that moment I realized that I had the best dad in the world. Reply 14.5k
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    Rectangle - Dontneednodoctor • 4d My mother was disappointed. Disappointed because, "You told your cousin Shirley before you told me? I think I should've been first." Reply 1.1k ...
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    Font - Ashtar-the-Squid. 4d 1 Award This story does not involve a dad, but it involves a very religious grandma. One of my friends was very nervous about telling his grandma that he was gay, and put it off for a long time. But when he turned 18 he decided that he had to get this done. When he told her she just looked at him calmly answered "of course you are. I have known that since you were 10". At the age of 10 he didn't even know it himself yet. EDIT: Thank you very much everyone for upvotes

    "A friend of mine told me he knew his son was gay because around that age his son always pointed out how strong road workers were whenever they passed them on car rides." said u/bluvelvetunderground.

    "I had to watch Magnum PI all the time when I was a kid. 40 yrs later and my type hasn't changed." said u/Uffda01.

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    Font - TheEliteSenpai . 4d Not me, but a friend of mine from college. When he came out to our group of friends, we were fine with it. He was still our friend. We then asked if he told his parents about it and said no. His parents are very religious and he plans to take the secret to the grave. The next day, he told his parents he was gay because he came home drunk from a party. All of us looked at each other, preparing to comfort him in case it didn't go well. But the next thing he said really s

    "Nothing more sobering than knowing for absolute certainty your parents love you no matter what." said u/RealEdwardNigma.

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    Rectangle - Ginchy1971 4d 8 Awards You still have to wear a condom ... Reply 31.7k

    "For me this is the most real 'dad' answer. Doesn't question what you're doing, just wants to make sure you're doing it right. 'Dad, i think I'm gay.' 'Don't just think it, you have to do it.'" said u/manwithoutcountry.

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    Font - Psychological-Run679 • 4d I was getting ready to go to a sleepover with a girl I was totally crushing on and my mom was like "you look like you're getting ready for a date!" And I paused and was like "would it be okay if I was.... Going on a date with a girl?" My mom just said, "Of course just remember to practice safe sex. You can get STDs from girls too!" Edit to add: First, thanks for all the positive praise for my mom, she is wonderful. For clarification, since some people were making
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    Font - Indraga • 4d I drunk-dialed my dad my freshman year of college in a sobbing mess and told him I was Bi. Went something like this: Me: I'm bisexual. Dad: Yeah, I figured. Me: Huh? What? Dad: There were some obvious signs. Go to sleep idiot. You have class in the morning.
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    Rectangle - Open_Action_1796. 4d 7 Awards Hi gay, I think I'm dad. Seriously though when my son came out I just said he was my son and it changed nothing between us other than I was happy he was discovering himself and growing up. Any man who would abandon or shun his own son for being gay is no man at all. ... Reply 12k

    "I can't believe I had to scroll this far down for the dad joke I was damn like where is it" said u/Lunnaa1.

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    Font - tahquitz84 4d ● 1 Award My daughter was looking extremely nervous one night while I was cooking dinner. I could see her talking quietly with her mom but she continued to look uneasy. After a bit of time, she came into the kitchen and I asked her what was wrong. She didn't want to tell me at first but I could tell she was uneasy so I said she could always tell me anything. She finally said that she was pansexual. I just looked at her and said "that just means twice as many people that can

    "You were cooking dinner? You missed a golden dad joke chance. 'Get your own pan. This is mine!'" said u/juicius.

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    Rectangle - wafflemaker9093 • 4d 6 Awards Lesbian here. When I came out to my dad he said "that's ok honey, I don't like guys either." Reply ... 49k

    "Just like your old man!" said u/katanakid13.

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    Font - Potter WhoLock01 - 4d Your mother owes me £10 ... Reply 6.4k
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    Font - 96-ramair 4d ● 2 Awards My high school aged daughter told me this exact thing while in the car a couple of months ago. I told her "Thanks for being brave enough to tell me, honey. I don't care who you love, only that they love you back as much as I do and are worthy of the love you give them. Make sure they deserve your love and make you a better person, and I'll be happy." Reply 3.7k ...
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    Font - lesbianshlesbian • 4d 2 Awards I came out a few months ago at the age of 42. My 80 year old dad stood up, started dancing, and tone deaf sing-yelling 'I have a gay daughter and I love herrrrrr!' It was adorable. ... Reply 1.3k
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    Rectangle - DaneDuaPooja1729. 4d 3 Awards Asian Dad: But are you a Doctor yet? ... Reply 9.6k

    "I don't care if you want the D, as long as you get the A's." said u/Portarossa.

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    Font - J KeyboardRoller • 4d 4 Awards My stepdad, who I consider my dad, was the man that raised me, and he's a big redneck steel worker. I came out at 18 and he sat me down and said "son, I've loved you like you were my own for the past 14 years. Why the hell would I stop now?" Reply 33.5k
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    Font - Amastarism • 4d Take a note from Olivia Coleman in Heartstopper: "Thank you for telling me. I'm sorry if I ever made you feel like you couldn't tell me that" Honestly, that would have been the perfect thing to hear. Reply 4.1k
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    Rectangle - Mettpawwz. 4d 16 Awards The best answer is, and will always be: Match. Their. Energy. If they're serious take it seriously. If they're really nervous then show them you love them and reassure them that they're perfect the way they are. If they just throw it out there like it's no big deal then don't make a big deal out of it. There's no one way to react to someone coming out. You have to use your emotional intelligence, and read the room a little. But the most important thing is to j

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