'Afterwards I told my girlfriend about it and she got furious at me': BF contacts GF's estranged sister to buy her an extremely expensive present

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    Product - B r/AmItheA Posted by u/throwaway84200t 5 hours ago AITA for buying my girlfriends sister a car?
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    Font - About four years ago my girlfriend and her younger sister had a huge falling out. I don't know what about because my girlfriend never went into any specifics and that was before I even met her but they haven't spoken to each other since. I've been with my girlfriend for two years. About a year ago her sister reached out to me because she wanted me to persuade my girlfriend into meeting with her because she wanted to reconnect but when I told my girlfriend she said she never wants to see h
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    Font - Two weeks ago her sister messaged me again and asked me if she could borrow 2 grand from me because she needed to buy a new car and she said she'd pay my back monthly. I told her that I can't just borrow her money because I don't know her and I don't know if she's actually gonna use it to buy a car. But I told her that if she found a car for sale she wants I can go and see it with her and pay for it. So a couple days ago I met up with her and I paid just over 2 grand for a car. This was t
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    Font - Afterwards I told my girlfriend about it and she got furious at me. She said I shouldn't have bought her a car and she claims I betrayed her trust by going behind her back. We argued about it for a while and well since then she barely speaks to me. But I honestly don't think I did anything wrong, especially since we don't share finances so I spent my own money and not hers. So was AITA? I don't know if ages are relevant here but I'm 27, my girlfriend is 25 and her sister is 19
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    Rectangle - CrystalQueen3000 - 5 hr. ago Judge, Jury, and Excretioner [366] Boundaries dude, you need a refresher. You as a 27 year old man should not be going behind your girlfriends back and contacting her estranged teen sister, let alone buying her a car. Creepy, inappropriate and downright weird as h YTA 5.1k Reply Share :
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    Font - maywellflower. 4 hr. ago Professor Emerita: [93] If I was his girlfriend, I wouldn't be wrong to assume OP was cheating on me with sister with speaking to her blocked al behind my back while buying her a car like it's nothing. Just like what probably happened with previous boyfriend - YTA and OP going to winded up an ex for that betrayal of trust & sheer ing stupidity of not seeing the situation when he brought the car.
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    Font - InundateTheIgnorant 4 hr. ago A ole Aficionado [10] How in the h did she even know how to get in contact with you? You never met her before? Are you sure?
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    Rectangle - AlphaFemale_420.4 hr. ago D I hope she leaves his betraying a
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    Font - Waxinghalfmoon - 5 hr. ago A hole Enthusiast [8] YTA but can I have a car too? You know me just as well and I reeeaaally want one. I can provide a sob story too if that helps.
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    Font - oblong127 5 hr. ago Nta. I am also an estranged sibling of your GF. I also need two thousand dollars for a car. DM me for details.
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    Font - Independent-Idea1278 5 hr. ago A hole Aficionado [15] YTA. I could write a paragraph on why, but the fact you don't think you did anything wrong makes me think it would be a waste of typing. I will say you did betray her trust and with your current attitude the relationship probably going to end.
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    Font - Defiant_Mercy · 2 hr. ago Parta ipant [1] | The thing that stands out the most is the sister says she and his gf argued about something with the gf's ex that she did. Which the sister denies. But here she is going behind her sister's back, getting a large amount of money from him to most, and claiming what the sister says is wrong. My personal opinion is the sister is showing his gf has reason to be mad.
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    Font - Everythingnow. 5 hr. ago A hole Aficionado [11] Leaning towards YTA but mostly just stupid, who the h buys a car for someone they have never met? Also why get involved in their relationship this has nothing to do with you? 582 Reply Share Natural War1261. 4 hr. ago Partas ipant [2] Anyone else curious how the sister got his contact information?
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    Font - FreeMySpeech2 - 5 hr. ago Parta: ipant [1] YTA. The white knight is strong within you. You betrayed your gfs trust. You helped someone you barely know knowing it would hurt the person I assume you love. Why would you betray your gfs trust? Do you think your gf could possibly see you as a life partner after this? You only did the right thing by initially telling your gf that hey sister was reaching out. You should have immediately boyfriend blocked her sisters number after that.
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    Font - Dabbles-In-Irony. 5 hr. ago A hole Aficionado [18] YTA - you way overstepped and I would break up with you over this.
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    Font - Sweetsmyle 5 hr. ago A hole Aficionado [12] YTA for falling for the sister's sob story and letting her manipulate you and put you in the middle of her and your girlfriend's fight. Reaching out to you was an overstep and you should have directed the sister to only contact your girlfriend and not you. Instead you accepted her side (honestly felt a bit sorry for her and could "tell" she wanted to reconnect) and went behind your girlfriend's back. I hope you know you likely got swindled by th
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    Font - BenCarburetor 5 hr. ago edited 5 hr. ago . Why do I get a feeling that in the near future there will be an AITA post titled, "AITA for hooking up with my ex-girlfriend's sister after my ex-girlfriend found out that I lent her sister money while we were still together."? 65 Reply Share silkruins 4 hr. ago Anticipating this update
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    Font - Jail Chris Brown - 5 hr. ago Parta sipant [3] YTA. You knew that your gf would be against it, 'cause otherwise you would've talked to her beforehand. Anyway, I'm your long lost brother and recently had $10k fall into a river. Could you help your brother out by lending me a measly $20k? I'll pay you back the 20 bucks, I swear. Don't tell your gf though.
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    Font - JustLetItAllBurn 5 hr. ago Parta ipant [4] Most people just break up with their girlfriend rather than paying 2k so she'll do it for them. Maybe your heart is in the right place, but man that was a terrible idea. When people have gone no contact with family never do anything to disrespect that. YTA
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    Font - . ArghMoss 5 hr. ago YTA. This is seriously weird man. Not to mention a bit creepy. Your gf and her sister have no contact you don't know the details of why. Sure I understand it would be nice if they reconnected and you've passed along the message that the sister wanted to. That's where your contact with the sister should have stopped. It does seem a shame that your gf doesn't want to even try and hear the sister out but that's her call and again you have no real idea what caused this in
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    Font - What you did was unsupportive and plain weird and you really should have come to this realization on your own.
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    Font - Ocbeach2 5 hr. ago Parta: pant [1] Honestly you should've just stayed out of it. Never go in between family s. I have 3 sisters and my husband DOES NOT get involved.

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