'You're out of your mind, Susan': Dramatic bride goes nuclear when friends won't pay thousands for her wedding, deletes entire Facebook page

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Remy Millisky • Writer and Editor
Mar 6, 2023 5:00 PM EST

This (former) bride was steaming mad at her wedding guests for ruining her big day by not giving her exactly what she wanted. In an utterly unhinged post, this woman named Susan shared her side of the wedding story to everyone on her Facebook page. She aired out her dirty laundry because she'd gotten so entitled that almost no one, friend or family, would talk to her. It's truly a journey through the mind of a woman so self centered that she loses it all. 

In a nutshell, Susan wanted her guests to give her money, no gifts, just four figures or more. A surprising number of guests actually did offer her several thousand dollars, but as the wedding grew closer, the bride started to panic that she still didn't have enough to have her dream nuptials. The best part of this post are her two followers, who immediately roasted her wild post. 

Next, this dad doesn't want to lift a finger for his daughter's birthday party… but he may actually have a point. 

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  • 01
    Font - Dear Friends, It comes with great sadness that I am announcing the cancellation of the C Wedding. I apologize for cancelling only 4 days beforehand. Unfortunately, and I have broken up due to some recent and irreparable problems. We have decided to end our relationship and not go forth with any future proceedings. However, we are remaining civil and are still a team for our son. After hours of tears, mental exhaustion, and even disassociation, I have come to this decision. In one hour aft
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    Font - How did this all come crashing down? Well, i invite you all on Facebook-- players, bystanders, and side characters of the people in my life-- to take a seat and listen. You're all involved somehow, somehow everyone is wrapped into this mess. Even if you weren't invited to my wedding, I don't care. You might hear of the drama and I'd rather you hear it from me. I'm not asking for sympathy. I just want to tell my story. Before I begin this mini novel, I invite all of you (including the Cl I
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    Font - ☐IQUEUUUN.LUITI few months of my life. first, things were a fairy tale. I met the love of my life at 14. We were both young but somehow we just knew we were meant to be. We worked on my family's farm together and with each warm summer spent in the fields our love grew deeper and deeper. Fast forward to high school. We went strong all 4 years. He put a ring on my finger when I was 18, worth nearly 5k. We'd put everything on the line for each other--everything. We both chose to attend the s
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    Font - We managed to save up nearly $15k for a wedding. Since our love was like a fairy tale, we wanted an extravagant blow out wedding, one where our son could be included. We started touring venues and were torn between two. A local psychic told us to go with the more expensive option, and we thought why the h not? We just needed a little push. Our dream wedding amounted to 60k-- all included with flights to Aruba. All we asked was for a little help from our friends and family to make it happe
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    Font - facebook.com I SPECIFICALLY, I mean SPECIFICALLY asked for cash gifts. How could we have OUR wedding that WE dreamed of without proper funding? We'd sacrificed so much and only asked each guest for around $1,500. We talked to a few people who even promised us more to make our dream come true. My maid of honor (who shall not be named) pledged $5,000 along with her planning services. We tearfully thanked and accepted. My ex's family offered to contribute $3,000. So our request for $1500 for
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    Font - So, we sent out RSVP's and only 8 people replied and sent us the check. We were f livid. How was this supposed to happen without a little help from our friends. To make matters worse, my ex's family took back their offer. Suddenly, more people backed out, INCLUDING THE C IMAID OF HONOR. MY BEST FRIEND SINCE CHILDHOOD. MY SECOND FAMILY. I was so shocked and tearful. To make matters worse, it was only a month before the wedding. To cancel everything would have been more than $5k. Desperatel
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    Font - We also set up a go fund me. That only got us $250. At this point we were exhausted, tired. I yelled at my ex; l became unraveled. I realized my dream wedding was becoming a nightmare. Then it got worse.
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    Rectangle - facebook.com My ex came into the room and offered to get a vegas wedding done. I laughed in his face, but he was dead serious. He wanted those cheap, raggedy, filthy, w re like vegas weddings. I mean WHAT the f ?? Was he out of his mind? Am I some Hooch piece of f trash, a hker? Am I supposed to like the idea of getting married in the heart of shady gamblers, alcoholics, and the get rich fast fallacy? Suddenly, my body began to shake as I entered a panic attack.
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    Font - My ex left the room and didn't apologize for his horrid suggestion. I then called my maid of honor and cried my eyes out. Instead of sympathy, I was told that I was asking for way too much and I should stick to my budget. I mean..no words can describe. How could someone who offered me THOUSANDS OF F DOLLARS then deny me MY promised money and then tell me to shift down my budget???? She KNOWS my | DREAM was a blowout wedding. I just wanted to be a kardashian for a day and then live my life
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    Font - Then she blocked me off all social media. Rumors swirled. I received anonymous threats. My ex stayed out later and later and I have a feeling he even cheated. My bridesmaids climbed on the boat with my maid of honor and dissed me. They essentially told me I was crazy. They asked for their deposit back...so I said f YOU. I refuse to give it back until they can pay me back for their emotional distress. My ex started to talk to my maid of honor and gossip about me behind my back. I overheard
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    Font - ..co Verizon 8:11 PM facebook.com @ 29%+ Anyway. I am exhausted. I am bone tired. My heart is not the same. Its stone cold. Fragmented. Empty. matter to you? Just f I need to get away from this awful society. How hard would it to have been to f donate friends? Do I give me money for my wedding. I won't even sugarcoat. I won't even pretend that's not what I wanted. It was for a dream. I was stabbed, cheated on, and Wrk'd.
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    Product - Goodbye. See you in two months. Friendly reminder to you c Don't think you own me. I am cutting all of you snakes off. I am living my life alone now. I only let in those I believe have good intentions. Xoxo Like Comment Share I have no words. You're out of your mind, Susan. Just now Like Reply More WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU??? Who on h EXPECTS that amount of money? Just now Like Reply More
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    Rectangle - DragonChronicle 19 hr. ago When I read that part I was convinced this had to be an elaborate joke. But then "You're out of your mind Susan" seemed oddly genuine Imao
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    Human body - No_Statement440. 14 hr. ago It is a "once AND a lifetime event" tho
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    Font - cotymanager 20 hr. ago. edited 11 hr. ago Id really like to pay someone 1500 usd to call me a sidecharacter of their life. Also very good mother. "Your parents just broke up. Better leave you for two months, just to ensure the lifelong trauma."
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    Font - Morella_xx 18 hr. ago . Followed by "For once, let me take the stage..." I'm pretty sure you think you're constantly onstage and every one is there just to see you, Susan.
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    Rectangle - kevpar463 14 hr. ago Wonder if 2500 gets you raised to the level of a f ing +1 or a fu ng acquaintance
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    Human body - tremainelol 12 hr. ago Quite a good example of main character syndrome on full blast. A complete egomaniac.
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    Font - Throne-magician - 21 hr. ago Fiance dodged a nuclear missile.. 1.2k Reply Share Aware_Material_9985 - 18 hr. ago Right? She did him a huge favor. Too bad my dude is stuck with her for the next 18 years, although I'd honestly fight for custody if I was him
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    Human body - The LuvBub 21 hr. ago Lol you're out of your mind Susan pretty much sums up this dumpster fire.
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    Font - EmpRupus 18 hr. ago She lost me at "Then a local psychic told me to choose the more expensive wedding menu" and I thought, "Why not?"
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    Font - . Betyoullneverguess - 20 hr. ago Poor kid didn't have $1500 to "donate" stashed in his diaper. No trips for him until he's old enough to apologize. (/s)
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