'Your efforts mean nothing to us': Man Schedules Thoughtful Messages to Girlfriend and Mother, They Throw a Fit When They Find Out He Doesn't Spontaneously Think of Them Throughout His Busy Day

Noga Jacobi

Apr 2, 2023 1:00 PM EDT

Sometimes, it seems that no matter how hard you try, you can't get it right. Even when you're open to criticism and willing to make an effort, it isn't enough, but sometimes you aren't the problem.

Take, for example, today's Am I The A$$hole on Reddit. OP shared how they use various automation on their phone to optimize their work since they have an extremely busy schedule. After realizing they don't have much time during the day for their loved ones and wanting to do better, they applied the same system to their girlfriend and mother.

OP put in time and effort to write messages and set reminders for both the important women in their lives, then scheduled them to go out when appropriate. Everyone was happy until the women found out about the system and accused OP of being a fraud.

Personally, not only do we vote NTA, but we think OP is a genius and should be teaching their ways to significant others worldwide.

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