'Don't dance for me until you get better' : Wife Takes up New Sensual Dancing Hobby, Practices on Husband, He Criticizes Her for Not Being Seductive Enough

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    Font - Posted by u/Upstairs-Change-4851 8 hours ago AITA for asking my wife to stop dancing for me until she gets better?
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    Font - My (33M) wife (26F) has recently gotten really into sensual type of dance classes (think burlesque, or twerking to R&B music type of stuff). She's an artistic type and loves music, movies, etc., but has always wanted to try dancing for fun. I supported her new interest and I was happy to see her having fun.
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    Font - After about 2-3 months of taking these classes pretty consistently, she sat me down one night for a "surprise." She dimmed the lights, came back in a sexy outfit and danced to a song. I was super excited to watch her, as she's been pretty shy about seeing her dance before, but, I have to say that it was not good. If I am being honest, it was really bad.
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    Font - To give an example, think of the show King of Queens when Carrie takes up pole dancing and dances for Doug. I know it's played up for TV but it was that almost that level. She tripped a few times and just overall didn't look comfortable or sexy. But I chalked it up to nerves and said it was great and the night continued.
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    Font - A week later, she did another "show" for me and it was just as bad. I didn't want to get into a habit of her doing these shows for me and secretly not liking it, so the next night when we were cuddling before bed, she asked if I wanted another "show" sometime, and I told her as kindly as possible that I don't say this to embarrass her, but that the
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    Font - dances haven't been doing it for me. I asked her if she felt nervous or shy, and she said a little bit but that the nerves went away once she started dancing. Overall, she seemed to take it in good sport, but then the next morning she was noticeably distant and eventually admitted she's upset and hurt that I told her to stop and that I "should have kept watching them even if I didn't like it so she could get better over time."
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    Font - Obviously, it was not my intention to hurt her but I felt I was placed in an tough spot here. AITA?
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    Font - Irrasible 8 hr. ago Asshole Aficionado [13] YTA - Damn. Don't you realize that the sexiest thing in the world is a woman that is trying to look sexy for you. You don't deserve her. ↑ 11.3k Reply
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    Font - Virtual-Volume-8826 8 hr. ago Partassipant [2] She probably spent so much time on her hair, makeup, outfit... I can just imagine her getting ready to surprise him, doing all of that work, ready to show off her new confidence and skills, and he does that.
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    Font - Why would she ever put herself out there for him again? He absolutely doesn't deserve her. 4.5k Reply Share
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    Font - Signal-Database1739. 4 hr. ago edited 3 hr. ago 2 2 Asshole Enthusiast [7] I can think of a lot of ways OP could have taken advantage of the situation and make it a fun play time for both.
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    Font - It's almost sad that he's making refference to the comedy show. If OP thinks that being sexy requires perfect dance, he should take the lead and dance for her.
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    Font - I don't say this to embarrass her Oh, yes, you did it, by acting dumb. In fact, if OP wants to have a chance to be forgiven for his dumb behaviour, he SHOULD START TO DANCE FOR HIS WIFE until he's forgiven.
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    Font - JuniperHillInmate 4 hr. ago If you can't look stupid in front of your partner, your partner is stupid. 3.0k Reply
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    Font - chammycham 3 hr. ago ● One of my favorite things is when one of us tries to be sexy and fumbles it. It's still sexy anyway and now it's funny too! 4 ↑ 1.3k Reply

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