'You can't do that': Customer loses thousands of dollars after filing a chargeback despite being offered full refund for purchase

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    Font - Posted by u/Outrageous_Rise 10 hours ago Rude buyer threatens me with a chargeback, then loses both the item and her payment
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    Font - A woman bought a designer handbag from me online, then about a week later sends an extremely rude message, claiming it had damages and smelled funny. She wanted her money back IMMEDIATELY, and demanded I send it to her on Venmo (against policy and massive red flag for fraud) or else she would file a
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    Font - chargeback (threatening sellers with chargebacks is also against policy). Being as it was the weekend, and her language was really abusive and gross, I decided not to interrupt my weekend and waited till Monday morning to respond, which is within the TOS.
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    Font - She was really aggressive, and sent me more rude messages demanding I relent and pay her off site "or else". I checked her feedback and at least one other seller reported that she also tried to coerce them into an off site refund with a chargeback. Buyers have enormous latitude in online sales, and tbh, I just didn't want to
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    Font - deal with her anymore so on Monday I responded offering her a full refund in exchange for a free return, and though I did not believe she was being honest, I gave her the benefit of the doubt and said maybe it was damaged in transit. I fully expected her to return the wrong item, but after I gave her a free return/refund
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    Font - option, she filed then a chargeback anyways claiming the item is not as described, then left very negative feedback. Both the feedback and existence of a chargeback claim harms my presence on the site and hits me with fees and an automatic refund for her, taking money out of my account automatically and
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    Font - messing with my budget. There's a reason why most sellers will do most anything to avoid chargebacks, it really is inconvenient and damaging for us. Now being as this used to be my profession, I know that it's considered fraudulent to file a chargeback when the retailer has offered a full refund.
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    Font - So naturally, I appealed the case and it was decided in my favor, and her refund was reversed. I blocked her and moved along. Fast forward about two weeks, and the original item shows up on my doorstep, returned, and without any of the damages that she complained about. Now. I realized
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    Font - in this situation I have no legal obligation to refund her at all, but better still, is that when I went to the seller dashboard to try, I don't even have the option to refund her because the case SHE OPENED was closed and decided in my favor. I still felt a little funny about relisting, so I emailed the site for more direction.
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    Font - Apparently, when you file a chargeback you are forfeiting your right to seek a refund directly from the retailer in favor of seeking a refund from your financial institution. She had apparently messaged the site and modified my feedback to demand a refund after the chargeback failed,
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    Font - and sent them the tracking number of the item she ultimately returned, saying that since she had a tracking number they had to refund her. But a failed chargeback is final in this case, and because her behavior was deemed fraudulent, the website itself is not able/willing to refund her
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    Font - anymore either. The only way I could give her her money back was if I unblocked her, exchanged info, and sent the refund on venmo or paypal, which are linked to my personal email and phone number. Given how rude she had been I have no interest in opening up any unmediated
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    Font - communication, and I'm certainly not going to give her my personal contacts of any kind. So by following through on her coercive threat to file a chargeback against me, she managed to lose both the item and her money. A
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    Font - chargeback is not the silver bullet people often think it is. If she'd been even reasonably polite, I'd have had no issue communicating with her directly to give her money back, even if she had filed the chargeback.
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    Font - Consistent-Annual268 +2. 10 hr. ago The best revenge is when the revenger revenges themself. 1.2k Reply Share
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    Font - Creepy_Addict. 10 hr. ago She wanted money and a free item. Lol 389 Reply Share
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    Font - AriesAsF 9 hr. ago This happened to me too on ebay. Buyer wanted to return an item. I explained how to do it through the proper channels. They decided to do a charge back instead. They were required to send the item back, and then
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    Font - somehow the charge back was decided in my favor. I got paid and kept the item. Very rare bit of ebay justice. Usually the seller gets screwed coming and going. Reply Share 247
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    Font - Outrageous_Rise OP 9 hr. ago Yeah, eBay in particular has very little insulation for sellers. In general, buyers have crazy amounts of power in online transactions. 99.9% of the time I have wonderful customers and everything is
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    Font - fine. But that .01% when it goes wrong, I usually just prepare myself to get screwed over because there's not a whole lot you can do unless they mess up their own scam somehow.
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    Font - Curious Penguin Socks +2.9 hr. ago Sell the item and never think of it again, unless it's to laugh at her. She tried to commit fraud and was found out. She got what she deserved.
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    Font - As a purchaser, I do my best to not ask for refunds and have only had to chargeback once. All I wanted was for the item I paid for but ended up with the item (it was cosplay and not the size I put in my order) and the money back. All because the company wanted me to send pictures of me
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    Font - measuring each item. I'm not a seamstress and that's why I commission out. I lack the skills, yes measuring is easy but I honestly don't know where to start and end for each section. I'm hopeless in that regard lol.
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    Font - I did send pics of the items, that were clearly 2 sizes too big. People play stupid games and win stupid prizes. 31 Reply Share

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