'Most of the guests were wearing even fancier dresses': Guest sparks controversy by wearing her wedding dress to another couple's wedding

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    Posted by u/Lopsided_Phone_4737 1 day ago AITA for wearing my wedding dress to someone else's wedding?
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    I (20F) married my husband two years ago. We aren't rich and don't care that much about weddings, so I wore my prom dress to my wedding.
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    It's not a super fancy dress or anything, it's basically a long sequin dress in deep dark blue with one sleeve. For the reference, the dress. My
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    friend Ciara (22F) was attending my wedding. Since the wedding, I wore it on a few occasions because it's basically the only one fancy dress I own.
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    Recently, Ciara was getting married and I was obviously invited. The wedding color scheme was dark blue and she requested fancy attire, so I thought my dark blue dress would be fine. It's not white
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    and it's not even remotely close to a wedding dress. I also didn't feel like wasting money on another fancy dress that I wouldn't ever wear again, especially since we aren't rich.
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    So I showed up at her wedding in my dark blue sequin dress. It wasn't standing out or anything, most of the guests were wearing even more fancier
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    dresses. However, when Ciara saw me, she lost it. She yelled at me in front of all the guests, in front of her husband and my husband,
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    saying that what I did was horrible and that no one shows up at a wedding in a wedding dress. I tried to reason with her, saying that the dress isn't a wedding dress, it's the only fancy piece
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    of clothing I own, I wore it to multiple occasions before and after my wedding. She didn't listen and kept yelling at me to the point her bridesmaids and her husband started trying to calm her down. She also said a
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    bunch of unsavoury names to me. I was very upset with the drama and decided to leave with my husband. Then I started getting texts from
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    Ciara, who blamed me for upstaging her on her wedding day, for driving a wedge between her and her husband since he said that she overreacted massively and upset her friend over a dress. I
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    decided to ignore them because I think she is being unreasonable, but a part of me thinks that I was an AH because I wore the dress to my own wedding.
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    Apart-Ad-6518 - 1 day ago Aficionado [10] NTA 100 Anyone reading the headline would have their finger straight on the Y...
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    In this circumstance however, it was absolutely ok to wear that dress & she ruined her own wedding as well as shouting at you for no reason. Even her husband thinks she's an AH from the sound of things. I suspect she's not only lost you as a friend but her husband is likely to lawyer up soon. She sounds like she'd be a nightmare to live with. 17.3k Share ●●●
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    bizianka - 1 day ago Exactly. If I were her husband, I would be so embarrassed to see her act like this. 4 4.8k Share
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    pacazpac. 1 day ago Partassipant [2] This is your "fancy occasion" dress that you wore to prom and multiple other events and just happened to wear to your wedding. It's not a wedding dress and Cara manufactured a conflict where no one would have even been the wiser. You didn't drive a wedge between her and her husband, she did by acting ridiculously. NTA and girlie's husband is right. She needs to get a grip. 7.6k Share ●●●
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    Sad_Living_8713 1 day ago • edited 1 day ago I think Ciara has a different problem with OP and deliberately manufactured a situation. She specifically picked dark blue and fancy. She knew OP wore that dress multiple times, I would think there was a close to zero chance that she thought OP would go out and get a different dress. I think Ciara is a drama llama. Share 3.3k
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