Are you 'you' or are you just the third or fourth of that first matriarch or patriarch of your family who started this vain "tradition?"
One of the most fun parts when you are expecting, is coming up with a name for your child. Are you going to go more traditional or find a quirky more unique name for the little guy? Are you going with a more feminine, masculine, or ambiguous name? When you finally land on a name both you and your partner love, it feels like it was always meant to be. However, sometimes, so-called “family traditions” can run this fun part of expecting.
Take user, Tauter11_96 on Reddit. He recently had a baby boy and named him Ezra, to the chagrin of his family. He comes from a line of “Williams," and though he gave his child “William” as his middle name, his family still acts disappointed. Some family members won't even say the baby's name and go about it by calling him all kinds of nicknames or even just “the child.” The parents love the name Ezra and just wanted to give their child the most stress-free life with no family pressure. He is stuck between feeling confident in his decision for his child, but also feeling like a bad family member. What would you do?
Tauter11_96 sounds like a good father to us. Unlike this father who basically shunned his daughter for wanting to apply to a community college over a state college... Like tf??