Weddings: can't live with them, can't live without them. The whole sphere in and around relationships, marriage, weddings, divorce, and dating can be spun in too many directions. Say you're getting married to your partner, and they have an ex-husband or wife, would you want that person to attend your wedding? Probably not…would you beg them to come? It's not likely, but hey, anything can happen.
It shouldn't be necessary for your ex-husband or wife to attend your wedding with your new partner. If anything, it would seem as if the person isn't over the breakup of it all. Life can be so heavy, and moving past things isn't easy. To fully move on it takes immense amounts of internal work, dedication, and even potentially meditation. Some people don't want to do the work, and some people are just married to their own suffering. But if you're someone who wants to work on themselves and see it through to the other side, it might benefit you in ways you couldn't imagine. So enjoy this Reddit piece about a man and his soon-to-be-wife living in delulu land.