Entitled mom charges stepsister rent behind husband's back, pockets the money to go out with friends: 'She is totally comfortable lying to your face'

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    Posted by u/Least-Counter-6573 14 hours ago AITAH For telling my wife i would rather her sister live in our house than her?
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    I (35M) and my wife (35F) have been married for 6 years. Some background 7 months ago my wife gave birth to our daughter, I'll call her Sadie. Ever since my wife gave birth she has been getting increasingly and refuses to do any work around the house and says she's still healing from giving birth, even though she always goes out with her friends, three months ago my
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    wife's stepsister Hannah (25F) called my wife and asked her if she could temporarily move in with us, she lived in a crappy apartment building and tenants recently had to leave due to the unsafe conditions.
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    Hannah didn't have enough to get another place right away, hence ger asking. My wife seemed very eager to let Hannah move in despite always claiming they never get along. They came to the agreement that she would help with Sadie in exchange for staying with us rent free so she could save up for a deposit on a proper apartment, everything was fine at first, Hannah has ADHD and took a week to adjust to living with us.
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    During that week she did all the chores my wife has been neglecting without us asking her to, i tried to tell her she didn't have to do all of them but my wife waved me off and said Hannah's ADHD makes her want to do it, Hannah backed her up. After she cleaned something my wife would thank Hannah a lot, i
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    thanked her as well but my wife did it constantly which seemed strange to me. My wife dismissed my questions and said it was normal to do with people with ADHD, since then my wife has pushed all childcare and any household chores i dont do onto Hannah, she has also been increasingly to Hannah and yelling at her if she makes a mistake on the first try of doing something.
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    I tried to intervene when i was at home but ky wife would accuse me of wanting to let Hannah lay around the house being lazy because she was 're****" she and i got into a huge fight about her using that word to describe Hannah and didn't speak for a few days. My breaking point
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    came when i found out my wife had been making Hannah pay her rent and buy baby supplies. I pay all the bills and the money Hannah had been giving my wife was not going towards the house, my wife was using it to go out with her friends.
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    My wife also Made Hannah pay for food, i usually give my wife the money for food and she bought snacks for herself with Hannah's contribution. I had another fight with my wife where she said Hannah was Lazy and if she didn't like her rules then Hannah could sleep on the street and get out of her house, thats
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    when i told my wife its my house as she doesn't pay any bills and at this point doesn't do anything but be as lazy as she accuses Hannah of being i would rather live with Hannah. My wife got quiet and has been refusing to talk to me or Hannah for the past few days, and I'm starting to think i crossed a line, AITAH?
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    Edit to add: i have no romantic/sexual feelings for Hannah, even if i did Hannah is a Lesbian, and even if she weren't i would not take advantage of her by making a move on her while she's dependent on me for housing. Please stop with the comments suggesting i Marry Hannah
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    MightySapphire . 12 hr. ago Do you understand what a HUGE red flag it is that your wife lied to YOU AND HANNAH when she took Hannah's money and kept it for herself? Like HUGE. No wonder "they never got along." That's because you're wife is a
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    Apparently she is totally comfortable lying to your face. And Hannah's. And she has no problem pretending not to be married. You should grant her that wish.
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    13ex_G 13 hr. ago Nta Your wife is stealing from you and Hannah, it shows a dishonest character and people don't tend to be dishonest in only one aspect of their life. I feel like if you start poking around you're going to find out a lot of surprises about your wife.
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    Abject_Jump9617 . 9 hr. ago • edited 8 hr. ago Yep she is definitely dishonest. Plus to add to what you stated; 7 months later and she is still "healing" and unable. to do household chores. What a crock. Unless there was some major surgery related to the
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    birth which I am sure op would have mentioned if there was, then there is no reason why she can't do tasks around the house 7 months later. She is lazy and a liar.
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    chez2202 12 hr. ago Your wife is neither a SAHW nor a SAHM. She isn't even staying at home as she's always off out with her friends. It's absolutely brilliant that Hannah is so happy to look after Sadie and do the housework and you need to tell your wife how pleased you are with this new
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    arrangement as you now have a live in nanny / housekeeper and your wife (who clearly wasn't content with her stay at home lifestyle) can now go out and get a full time job to pay Hannah for her work and have extra money for herself. I'm sure she'll be absolutely thrilled with the suggestion. Just be
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    sure to thank her for making it all possible by sitting on her backside while Hannah took over all of her responsibilities to free her time up so that she can contribute financially to the household.

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