Groom’s Ex Shows Up at His Wedding, Revealing to the Bride That They’ve Been Having an Affair, She Leaves Him at the Altar

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Briana Viser • Writer and Editor
Jul 16, 2024 12:00 PM EDT

You know all those old Hollywood dramas, where right before a couple's about to get married something goes astray and they run off with someone else? Well, sometimes real life is like that too. 

Imagine it's your big day; you've been planning this moment for months, maybe even a year, as a girl you've dreamed about it, and you finally feel like your dreams are coming true, only to realize that it's a nightmare. People can be fickle, that's for sure. But finding out the day of your wedding that your fiance, whom you thought to be your soulmate, is having an affair with his ex? More than a nightmare, but the silver lining is that you didn't marry him (if there even is a silver lining to that). Either way, enjoy this Reddit piece about a sleazy guy and a girl who got away. And if you enjoy wedding drama, you can read this story about a girl who doesn't let her father walk her down the aisle. 

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  • 01
    r/AITAH • 2 days ago Therealalpha_ Aita for defending a bride who left her husband at the alter.
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    Okay so boom me and my husband attended a wedding. It was his kinda cousin/ niece's wedding I'm not sure how to describe the relationship but they were close growing up.
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    The wedding was a bit unique. There was a brunch before the actually ceremony with bride and groom. Then for an hour the wedding party left to get ready while all the guests were still at brunch, then the actually ceremony and the real reception was supposed to happen after.
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    I thought everything was normal. At the brunch the couple looked happy and excited and a little. nervous maybe.
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  • 05
    My husband had told me there had been a little drama leading up to wedding because the grooms family insisted that the grooms ex should attend wedding because they have a good relationship. The ex is an emt and she apparently saved mother in laws life once. The
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    bride didn't want the ex to attend but she caved in.
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    At the actual ceremony as you might've guessed from the title the bride never showed. After a few minutes of awkward silence with the music playing as we waited for the bride, the brides father came told everyone she left. Groom was crying, mother- in-law was screaming it was such
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    a huge mess. At the reception they basically just told people to take To go boxes of food so it didn't go to waste.
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    Since a lot of family was in town for the wedding, brides side of the family was hosting a reunion. At the reunion the bride said the reason she left groom at the alter was because at the brunch the ex told her that she slept with the groom and apparently showed
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    the bride a tape she made with the groom. Bride was distraught and left because she didn't wanna marry a cheater.
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    Grooms side of the family were slandering the bride on every social media platform possible. So the brides side decided to fire back and they were publicly accusing the groom of cheating on her and it was just a big storm.
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    Groom comes to brides house to try and clear things up.
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  • 13
    So the groom didn't actually cheat on the bride. The tape was from years and years ago, the grooms appearance just hadn't changed that much so bride believed the ex when she said it was recent. The ex was just trying to break them up. The ex confessed to it too.
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    To my surprise instead of everyone being angry at the ex everyone turned on the bride. Her family was I at her for wasting money, being gullible, not letting the groom defend himself first. Everyone was yelling at her, I thought it was crazy so I spoke up in her defense.
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    I would've believed it too if there I was video evidence + the fact that she was practically forced. into the ex attending their wedding.
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    Now the whole family is against me and the bride and it's so awkward and everyone acting cold. My husband is upset because she now feels like if someone accused him of cheating on me I'd just take their word for it but I feel that's completely unfair.
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    MINI UPDATE: okay so my hubby came back to hotel room and I showed him post because he knows I like using Reddit. I mentioned I specific comment to him where one redditor asked me how are we sure the tape was old and that
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    the groom and ex aren't just covering their affair up by lying and saying it's old. I told my husband and at first he laughed but he started to think about the whole situation I guess. While hubby was still at the brides house trying to help with
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    situation after I left (the environment was getting too much for me so I went back to hotel). The groom had been groveling to the bride. Even tho he was exonerated by ex admitting it was fake he was still being very
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    apologetic which threw my husband off a bit. Like even tho he maintained he didn't cheat. Instead of husband being angry about being left at the altar and publicly humiliated he seemed to just want wife to forgive him.
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    I thought this would be normal because groom probably feels horrible about allowing the ex to ruin the day and hurt the wife like that but my husband said it was unusual behavior for the groom.
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    Apparently the groom is the highhorse type and he would "never apologize for a mistake that wasn't his". Husband knows the groom better than me so my husband thinks it's plausible that the groom did cheat by the way he's acting but he's not gonna bring it up because of how high
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    tensions are and it might just make things worse.
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    I also explained how and why I felt like my husband was being unfair to me by saying he thinks I'd believe anyone who accused him of cheating on me. He apologized and told me he was just stressed out earlier and he feels like we wasted money in this trip and went seen our kid for
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    days over this wedding that got blown up over a lie. Bride texted me thanking me for defending her. Most of the slandering social media posts were taken down.
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    The ex posted on social media playing victim. Well not really but she's posting like heartbreak stuff and those depressed Bart simpson memes, at her big age...
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    The grooms mother pulled up the brides house after I left and was threatening to "burn the place down" because she was mad the bride humiliated her son over a lie because it was such a huge wedding he had many coworkers and stuff there.
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    I feel like I'm missing something but I'm tired and it's been a long day. EDIT + question:
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    A few people are saying I should show this post to the bride but I'm a bit scared she won't react well to me putting her business online because I don't know her that well, but at the same time I feel like she might appreciate that most people are on her side? But also I don't really want her to see
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    my "conspiracy theory" about how the husband actually cheated on her because there's no actual proof. Should I?
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    Ghostp3pp3r 2d ago. Sounds like the Groom's family still likes his Ex more and wanted her at the wedding for that purpose. Otherwise they wouldn't be acting so stupid and putting the blame all on the bride- to-be.
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  • 32
    bluefairytx • 2d ago So what's going to happen? Are they going to get married or is she walking away? Idk how I would deal with inlaws like that.
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    LibraryMouse4321 • 2d ago The fault lies with the MIL for insisting on the ex coming, and the ex for lying to break them up. MIL was probably behind the lie as well, and got what she wanted, which was for them to split.
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    Anyone defending the MIL or ex should be ashamed. Ex is an EMT? Bride should go to get job and report her behavior. What she did has nothing to do with the job, but it shows bad character.
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    Bride should also sue the ex for the cost of the wedding. She intentionally caused the problem that ended the wedding, so she should pay for it.
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    Ok-Cap-204 • 2d ago How does the bride KNOW that the tapes were old? Because the groom said so? And the liar ex said so? How does she know that is not just their cover story?
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